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We know that life is difficult and unpredictable. Even the strongest man on this planet was once a helpless weak child. Again, the same man will grow old and become weak over a period of time. Life is a roller-coaster which clearly depicts that nothing stays strong or weak forever. It is an oscillation or a cycle which proves that things often change.
At times, when we are unhappy and unable to accept reality, we only question the painful situations we are in. Although, it does take a lot of effort to control our emotions and respond to such situations.

You know the importance of positivity in your life. You understand the consequences of overthinking and inappropriate behavior. You can only aim to be better because perfection is absolutely a hoax. You can aim to be better to fulfill your needs. You can aim to benefit your family and the society you live in. Likewise, everyone else also aims for different things on these bases.

As you know, we live in a world where people possess different beliefs so it is impossible to convince them to unanimously believe in only ONE possibility. However, such a step will result in CHAOS and nothing else. Instead of choosing such an option, it is easier and safe to be wise to respect the difference in opinions and beliefs. It doesn’t mean that we should be stubborn about our beliefs and disregard the others. Ideally, these differences should be looked at as an opportunity. Respecting such differences will bring peace and help us lead a happy and lovable life but there is a RISK. Since we are not a perfect human being we have to be dependent on others. Our emotions and mental well being is dependent on others so problems are certain.
Let’s consider the feedback system as an example to explore more. Irrespective of the industry, the feedback system’s data is very important for the company’s growth. It is one of the easiest ways to understand the customer’s needs, opinions and, necessary suggestions. It is impossible that the poll results of hundred thousand customers will be the same. The data will NOT be the same because the people living in different environments utilizing the same service look from a different point of view. These points of views help companies grow in different regions and understand the market better. Apparently, it is the company’s decision to accept or ignore the feedback. However, there is a risk.

Subconsciously, we respond in a similar way. People possessing different thoughts respond differently to the same situation. One of the major reasons for such a difference is the environment we live in. The unfavorable situations, criticisms, emotional breakdowns, pain, failure, lust, success, and happiness are the elements dependent on others BUT it is upon us to decide a suitable action for a given situation. The resulting action may benefit us or can be a pitfall. It can motivate us to be a better person or it can demotivate us and fill our mind with negative thoughts. There is a risk. There will ALWAYS be a risk. Though we love to be happy and enjoy our life, we cannot ignore the existence of hatred, pain, and sorrow in the society.

There are thousands of reasons around us which can break our heart and can disturb our emotions. When you are in such a terrible situation, it is okay to acknowledge it and feel the pain. it is okay to let thoughts wander in your mind and it is okay to expect some support from the people you love and care about BUT it is not okay to act on those negative thoughts. It is not okay to hurt someone else when you are in pain. It is not okay to catch hold of such thoughts which risk your peace of mind.

It is possible that you cannot control your emotions every time but it is important to realize that you cannot let your emotions be in charge of your actions. It is necessary that you learn to isolate your thoughts. It looks like an impossible task but believe me, it is not. It is true that you cannot become strong overnight so you need to practice. You need to practice questioning your thoughts. You need to pull yourself out of your delusions. You need to practice to accept and validate the different opinions that exist around you. It is a BLESSING that we don’t believe in only ONE possibility. Every difference in opinion is an opportunity to explore our boundaries. Let the broken heart have an opportunity to heal and live again.

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