I feel like everyone has a survival instinct. It’s just that every person has a different belief with respect to what is key to their survival, or what they lacked in the past that made them feel this way, this inadequate.

For example, if someone believed that to live(or to exist), they needed people to love them, or look up to them(seeking validation, basically), their instinct would be to manifest that belief into behaviors like attention-seeking.

So why do we judge someone who has different behaviors than us, who would react to a situation in a different way than us? We may not agree with it, which is fine, but why do we actively judge them? Everyone you see is just fighting tooth and nail to survive. Everyone you meet is just following their own survival instincts. If something someone says or does disrespects you, set your boundaries and walk away – but what’s the point in spending your healing energy in judging them?

We’re all different, we all think differently and have our own choices to make and our own lives to live, so what’s the point in sitting there and judging?

Let people post whatever they want on social media.

Let people be vulnerable.

Let them shout and cry and scream.

Let them talk without you judging their words.

Let them feel too much, or too little.

Let people live, while you walk ahead and live your own lives however you want to.

Just move on. Live and let live.