Probably the best book I’ve read on love and relationships is Gary Chapman’s The 5 Love Languages. This masterpiece sheds so much light on why and how we give and receive love. There’s a reason it’s a perennial best-seller and has a five-star rating with nearly 40,000 reviews. 

In the book, Chapman explains that there are five primary ways people speak the language of love. We don’t speak them all equally. In fact, there is one, maybe two, we speak natively. The others we speak occasional...