Seems like as a debut Writer with her first book published for a month that waiting is the biggest thing to get used to as a author.
Waiting for inspiration, editing, spellcheck, proofreading. Name and Cover, how to publish. Money required, to built audience. Marketing everyday. Then we publish and wait for first sales report and advertise. Never enough money for marketing so we wait for someone to download to their book shelf, read it. Maybe a star rating or review will happen before the 90 days is up for the new release. Each stage is a chance to grow in patience. So hopefully fingers crossed the wait will be worth it as my book is selling well and gets lots of good reviews soon.