If I only had a dollar for every time a person told me: Good things come true to those who wait.

I’d use to get so irritated though – I was never good at waiting and want to control life!

However, as years went by, no one told me this: Best things happen in life to people when you least expect them.

Without a blueprint, life seems hard to control. We are placed on a course that we must follow from the beginning.Our parents and teachers tell us what they want of us, and we go on a quest to find out what this treasure map of life holds in store for us.

Nonetheless, people get so fixated on these goals that people believe everything in life must go as planned. 

Avoid disappointing yourself with hard goals and stop attempting to control how life should unfold. The great thrilling aspects of life are those that are unpredictable.

When a sudden turn of events leaves you laughing, be grateful and aware of the magic that life has been bestowed upon you. 

Why do big and best things happen in life at a time when you least expect it to work?

Well, it’s all about learning to let go. Mostly, awesome things happen because you let go of your expectations.

You do an energy shift – you no longer focus on waiting.

You no longer focus on craving.

You no longer focus and care about people you met talking behind your back.

And you no longer send off the vibe of not having to the Universe.

Instead, you focus on enjoying.

You live in the present.

You give off positive vibes. You send out the vibe of abundance & wealth – which in return creates more abundance & wealth for you to enjoy!

Really now – real magic starts happening when you start letting go and start trusting what the Universe has on mind for you. I know, trusting the Universe is never easy but it’s so worth it in the end even if it takes a long time.

Sometimes it takes a long time for good things to find you in life because you are still learning letting go as part of the process for happiness, making ways for true people to show up. It also shows you true strength of a person.

The universe works its ways in enigmatic forms.Good things will happen in time in your life and in your favour. But if they don't, you'll have to accept it. Your life would not work out the way you had hoped. 

This does not, however, rule out the possibility of living a happy and fulfilled life.

You must take advantage of the present moment. Trying to forecast the future is a waste of time. Instead, concentrate on being the greatest person you can be in the present moment.

Expectations lead you to struggle with what is, while intentions allow you to be with what is. Expectations are a means of trying to get things under check. Expectations imply that actions would occur in a certain manner, and if they do not, anger, annoyance, or discomfort will result. If you're like other people, love doesn't always happen when or as you want it to. This is due to the fact that there are so many variables.

This is due to the many variables involved (e.g., who you are at all stages of your life, if you've experienced thelessons you're supposed to learn, where your soul mate is on his life journey, pacing, etc.).

Intentions make you to be more adaptable to allow for what is supposed to be. When you are fixated on how things should be, it is a chance to set an intention for what you want to do.