Kids are testing boundaries, pushing limits, and seeing what they can get away with. They are going to make choices that go against the integrity you have upheld in your home. They are going to pop off with a snarky remark that goes one step too far within the confines of respect for their teachers or classmates. They are going to bring the action figure to school you told them to leave at home; play with Pokemon cards in class; pass a note to a friend with an off-colored comment that lands in the grasp of their teacher, instead.

They are kids. Their actions are unpredictable, their decision-making often clouded by the impulsivity of proceeding without caution.

I shared a few tips and tricks with Thrive Global for navigating that moment when your child is sent to the principal’s office (a.k.a. my office).

I promise—my office isn’t nearly as scary as you might think.