Change is hard but sometimes is necessary to shift the momentum of our direction. We’re creatures of habit. Let’s admit it, we’re not always the smartest creatures. We’ve built unhealthy habits over the years that we know need to change, but prove to be the most difficult ones to shift. Instead, it’s easier to sit back and let life control us versus letting us control our lives. The easiest thing we can do is nothing at all.

As much as we’re creatures of habits, we’re also creatures of growth. We crave knowledge, perspectives, and experiences that challenge the way we see ourselves. We look for ways to expand into our true potential of the best version of ourselves. As easy as it is to do nothing, it’s painful to do nothing as well. As Anais Nin said, “And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”

When I first started this blog, I loved the idea of sharing my experiences and wisdom gained from living a life focused on reflection, self-growth, and mindfulness. These areas lit up my soul as I learned more about the intricacies of trying to be a good human while understanding what being a good human even meant. 

I find joy in writing and sharing my personal stories to connect and help others heal who may have similar experiences. I love the meaningful conversations that happen after sharing a glimpse of my own narratives which makes me inspired to write even more. I sit in peace while reflecting on the stories held within each of us that have found our voice and place. I wait in anticipation for those stories still waiting to find their way to be heard. 

At the same time, there are so many blogs, websites, podcasts, videos out there that cover similar topics incredibly well. I’m left questioning:

– Am I providing the most value I can? 
– What am I adding to the conversation that they may not necessarily be covering? 
– How do I stand out in all the noise?
– How does what I do matter? 
– How much breadth or depth do I want it to matter? 
– If I impact the lives of a handful of people, is that enough? 

I think all of us have felt this in some aspect of our lives whether it’s trying to build a blog, pursuing our creative endeavors, advancing our careers, etc… We’re all trying to not only find our voice in the sea of so many but finding the tribe of people where our voice really resonates.

We share common experiences of triumph and heartbreak but yet have uncommon reactions and reflections. These differences create an interesting contrast and important lessons to share with one another. Let’s share these narratives that are worthy of being heard. I’m committed to helping others find their voice to nourish the soulful, passionate, and creative soul within in whatever form or fashion that looks like.

So good changes are coming soon to build better ways to share and connect with each other. I look forward to this next new chapter of nourishing our soulful journey together.

I would love to hear from you! 

What’s one word to describe how you’re feeling right now?
What’s one sentence from a story you’ve been waiting to tell?
What’s one paragraph on why you’ve wanted to tell it?

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