I’m getting to know some new folks these days. I’m feeling them out, watching them in their private moments, wondering why they do what they do. They’re a little hard to read and sometimes they act inconsistently. They change their clothes a lot and make awkward hand gestures over and over. Something unspoken lies beneath their surface, like wounds and anger, but I’m not sure of the cause yet. We’ll have to spend more time together, and I’ll need to see them in a variety of situations that make ...