Deciding the purpose is a mere blueprint from which we plan the activities sequentially from scratch. Life is all about experiences we learn and the corrective measures we take to relearn lessons from the mistakes we commit. Most importantly accepting the things we don’t know and listening from other people is a basic quality in becoming the people whom we wish to become.

Firstly, we need to understand ourselves to find out our strengths and weaknesses. We can do a SWOT analysis to get a better understanding of our own self. Determine the situations where people had complimented us for the work and the projects that we did without having a feeling of being tired. That is how we identify our strengths. But once we carry forward to work there might come a hurdle where people would belittle us, it is we who should stay positive and strong in our passion and give time to make things happen as per our desired plan.

We must make use of the full potential in our lives and do not be scared to step backward as we might not get the same time once it is lost. Every minute passed cannot be bought back in real life rather it can either be flashed in closed eyes only as a memory or a captured moment can be viewed as a picture. Since time is precious, we should learn the art of experiencing adventure and the knowledge we gain through living. Active participation and experiences are significant in life which decides the success or failure of life. In addition, we tend to get exposed to limited opportunities in our current age, however, when we read books, we can witness the knowledge of the authors and the situations that they had undergone in their lives. Listening to the past life stories of other people would let us understand how they had tackled those circumstances. These are the sources in which we can increase our comprehension, independence, maturity, and self-confidence

Mostly the people who are self-concerned would decide the purpose of their lives. As for me, my purpose in life is connected with the work that I perform. I was molded into an individual and had set my purpose from which I started out planning which guided me to make decisions. I fail, indeed humans fail at times. I motivate myself whenever I fall down. I might require time to heal, I might feel like I have lost everything if I didn’t get what I want at a moment. I take time, more time to think and plan. In the process of planning, I would cry silently when people are not around me but I never quit things that I had first planned. I have to accept the fact, if I decide to do this particular activity, I should take complete control and I should only face the consequences which are caused because of my decision. I’m responsible for the words I utter. We are responsible for what we say and that is why words are important when in conversation with people. Choosing the right words to utter after going rehearsals in mind is how I talk with humans. I learned this lesson from the person whom I know. There are people who would remember the sentence you spoke about three years ago and ask you at the present moment, ‘You said you wanted to study MBA, didn’t you?’ That is how people are. Choosing a different alternative according to the present scenario would be better for us but that is not what others care about. Not everyone is the same. Although, I understand we do not need to bother about the opinions of other people.

I often get inspired by the work of the ones who are experts in the field I wish to get hands-on experience. That is the reason I maintain a separate account to follow my passion for painting and another for reviewing books. My homepage of these accounts would be filled up with two different categories which would allow me to follow both whenever time permits me. I try to get the best out of it in my own professional way rather than just reciprocating it. I must say that my purpose is a core element that keeps me on track to what I want out of life rather than wandering around and getting all out of a sudden plan.

It is important to realize the things that make us happy, sad, annoyed, feel loved in our life. We need to learn in managing those emotions. Once people realize what they are feeling, they will know how to calm themselves from which they can adjust their responses and behavior well in life, so there would their relationships would be healthy and they can find a way to manage difficulties. Maturity comes as children turn into adolescents, we should figure out how the situation makes us feel. If we feel anxious about a previous incident, we should not spoil our well-being when we are present in a group, instead, we must be aware of the feeling and move out of the group to take time and find out a better solution to resolve our mindset as those feelings often affect the people surrounded by us from which our connections ie friends, and family would refuse to be like how they used to be with us. Sometimes we may not know what makes us feel sad, we may just cry without recognizing the reason behind our sadness. All we need is the shoulder of our parents or friends to guide us with positive words. By sharing our feelings, we would get consoled with their supportive words from which we can regulate our emotions.

Overall, we must plan the activities and get done with a SWOT analysis as it helps us to get a report of the things that we are strong at, the things that threaten us, etc. We must accept reality and experience life as it comes. Incidents can be learned through our own lives, other people's lives (active listening), visuals and books, etc. The process of planning and adhering to the words uttered by us should be considered prior under any circumstance. Also, there is no room for shyness when there comes an opportunity to learn from experts or experienced people. Most importantly, both children and adolescents must recognise and be aware of their emotions and know to arrive at a solution without complicating their relationships.