Utter tosh such as this piece in this week’s Guardian makes my blood boil.

No matter how ‘bad’ a relationship is there is never any excuse for sneaking off and secretly rubbing your genitals against another person’s genitals. Particularly when statistics tell us that in almost all cases the partner of the person happily getting their genitals rubbed is blissfully unaware that the relationship is ‘bad’.

There is simply no excuse for resolving whatever issues you may have in your relationship by producing a different sort of issue with an affair partner. There are alternatives: conversation, therapy, divorce are but a few off the top of my head.

Middle-class clap trap from The Guardian. They produce stuff like this all too regularly.

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/jan/14/all-efforts-should-go-towards-repairing-the-trust-how-to-survive-an-affair