"But then, if you are incredibly blessed (some might call it luck), there are the special few that stick with you. They stick to you no matter what. And, you come to count on them, and they come to count on you." Violet Lapp, The Circle
Friendship and family cannot be found but they most certainly can be lost. These types of things must be earned with sweat on the brow and worked hard like a stubborn garden in rough soil. One can take these things for granted, but should not.
If you are lucky enough to have one and double blessed to have both, well, then, I would say that you have found success in life.
And, if you have not, well, that is okay too...there is always still time. With effort and perseverance, these things can be obtained in time.
And, if you prefer to find these things in books, well, then, do check out mine.
Peace, Violet
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