Once upon a time I lived in New Haven, CT. It was for only two years. But during those two years I met someone who became a life-long friend. Now, his face is on the cover of my latest novel, the first book in my Blessed Be series: For Love Of God, release date 16 June 2022. (Pre-order available now.)

At the time I met him, he was in transition from being an actor, about to become a candidate for the Episcopal priesthood. He attended General Theological Seminary in New York City, was graduated, and began a life dedicated to loving. All this sounds fairly pro forma until you know one very important thing about him: he’s gay.

When I decided to write a story about a gay priest, I approached my friend to advise me, to help my work be as accurate and as sensitive as possible. He was very generous with his time, his insights, and his personal experience, helping me understand what life would be like for my main character, Spencer Hill, as a gay man who feels called to the priesthood. It was only during the last few months of writing this story that I became aware of the tremendous strength of character, courage, and determination my friend showed in refusing to turn away from his calling or to betray his personal truth. 

He refused to lie. He also knew that living a life that denied who he was would not only be less authentic for his parishioners, but also it would feel like slapping God in the face. 

Despite progress in many areas, the denigration of queer people continues to be a problem that affects and sometimes ruins lives. For Love Of God, and the whole of the Blessed Be series, is my latest effort to help bring respectful acceptance to the queer community.