Today for the majority of people it’s getting hard to create genuine, meaningful relationships.

Because of social media, our focus is “broken”. It’s getting hard to focus on anything, especially on one person romantically.

It used to be one person at a time. Now people go on dates with multiple people in one day.

The grass seems always greener on the other side. One person goes another comes.

There are “situationships”, talking stages, and casual hookups.

I feel that genuine connection is rare.

It feels like we aren’t valuable to each other anymore.

We keep chasing better, more intelligent, more successful, more handsome, and more beautiful.

I agree with Amir Levine “This is sometimes referred to in attachment literature as the “dependency paradox”: The more effectively dependent people are on one another, the more independent and daring they become.”

We have lost that security. Which will lead us to lose ourselves.

And that leads to depression, mental health issues, and health issues in general.

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