You Are As Free As Your Options
Imagine, for just ten fleeting seconds, that you are in a prison cell. A stark, grey, limiting enclosure that permits only a handful of activities. Picture the barren walls, the sense of confinement, and the stifling limitation of your choices (Food, Activities, Friends…etc.). Does it feel free? Probably not. You would likely feel as if your wings were clipped, freedom cruelly yanked away, and your personal liberty redefined in terms of your limited options.
Now, jolt back into reality. Your life isn’t confined within four walls. There are no bars on your windows, but let’s say you feel “Limited” and constrained by what you can do. Do you feel utterly free? Does that feel a bit like living in a virtual prison cell?
As we travel through the landscape of our life, especially during the bad times in our lives, we start questioning the true extent of our freedom.
Renowned self-help author Brian Tracy once said, “You are as free as your options.” Now, this statement may seem a little confusing at first glance. After all, aren’t we all ‘free’ in our respective lives? Yet, Tracy’s profound statement encourages us to ponder over the quality of our freedom and the extent of our options.
To understand this, consider the skills you’ve acquired, the languages you can speak, the activities you can perform, and the hobbies you’ve nurtured. Each one of these elements represents an option, a door leading to potential opportunities. Each language you speak opens up conversations with new people; each skill allows you to explore different career paths, and every hobby has the potential to blossom into a profitable venture.
And the more of these options you have, the more freedom you possess. For you are not chained by circumstances or restricted by lack of choices, you have an array of paths to traverse, an ocean of possibilities to explore.
So, what does this mean for you, dear reader?
Firstly, never underestimate the power of a hobby. Do you love painting? Can you strum a tune on your guitar? Are you passionate about blogging? Every hobby holds within it the seed of a potential side job. Moreover, it provides a break from your routine, a chance to explore something you truly love, and an opportunity to create and contribute.
Secondly, never stop learning. Just as a river that doesn’t flow becomes stagnant, a mind that doesn’t learn becomes stagnant too. Stay curious. Read books. Take online courses. Learn a new language. Each new skill, every nugget of knowledge, expands your options and, therefore, your freedom.
Lastly, build connections. Meet people. Network. Share ideas. Collaborate. The more people you connect with, the broader your worldview becomes. Each connection is a potential opportunity waiting to be explored.
Meet Rola, a dedicated accountant with a reputed firm, meticulously analyzing columns of numbers from dawn till dusk. Despite her career’s financial stability, Rola felt increasingly confined, her life a constant loop of figures and balance sheets. Yet, there was a silver lining – her passion for baking. Within the cozy confines of her apartment kitchen, amidst the aroma of fresh bake, she discovered an escape, a world where she felt liberated and free.
One day, a moment of realization dawned upon Rola. She recognized her culinary hobby as a form of escapism and a viable opportunity waiting to be harnessed. Inspired, she honed her baking skills, shared her creations with friends, and gradually transformed her passion into a small business. Breaking away from her accounting job, Rola seized control of her own hours, clients, and career path, ultimately finding her true freedom in the swirl of cream and the crunch of a cookie. Rola’s journey serves as a reminder that our passions often hold the key to options and freedoms we might not initially recognize.
Remember, freedom is not a static state. It’s dynamic, it’s growing, and it’s within your grasp. Every skill you acquire, every connection you make, and every hobby you nurture brings you one step closer to becoming a freer, more versatile version of yourself.
As Brian Tracy puts it, you are indeed as free as your options. So, seize every opportunity, harness every option, and explore every potential. That’s the way to live a life of boundless freedom.
Have a Wonderful Week!
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