I have lately realised that many people view their friends—and family and overall support system—as a parachute. Whenever you find yourself in crisis, you press one button, and you are saved.

I (at least at this point in my life) do not view my people that way. I do not think I would ever summon reinforcements the moment I find myself in a tough situation.

I have not really been in a crisis, lately. Have I ever, really?

I just don’t think I have that instinct of reaching out for help in situations where most people would need help. Is that a bad thing? Does that belie the depth and worth of my relationships?

Support looks different for different people and in different situations. I’m not exactly the skydiving type, anyway. Why would I need a parachute?

I am, however, the aquatic type. As capable as I am of swimming—and I am a very capable swimmer—I respect the utility of a life jacket. I trust it will keep me afloat in most situations. With its arms wrapped around my sides, I’ll never like I’m drowning and need to find an oxygen tank to survive.

I already have my life jacket. That is enough.

I already have everything I really need, don’t I?