Think about the last time you gave advice or feedback. Or perhaps you were just making a “simple observation” about someone.

How did it go? Was it well-received?

Maybe. Or maybe not.

The desire to share our thoughts and feelings is natural—especially with those we care about.

But there’s a big difference between sharing perspectives versus telling people what to do—especially if they didn’t ask for input.

Even if someone asks for advice, you can still miss the mark.

Why is that?

The difference i...