"When we stay settled in pain, we risk becoming authoritarians. Our essential resentment of loneliness becomes an accusation against the world, a feeling that somehow we are entitled to dominate it because we are in so much pain. Authoritarian movements draw in lonely, embittered people who have no other belonging and gives them a mission for which their misery is fuel, and repays them with the satisfaction of vengeance against those they blame for their misery."