First, let me say this is an informational post only to let folks know why I’m quiet. I’m not looking to have a pity party.

One of my BFFs has had major health issues and been in and out of the hospital for several years. He went into the hospital again the first of July. This time, however, the results weren’t as good. I was in the ICU with his husband (my other BFF) on Monday when they took my friend off life support. He didn’t pass immediately so they transferred him to a hospice facility nea...