Writers must be readers in my opinion, and I have been trying to read works that will prepare me for this process over the past few years. Here are my top 6 discoveries along the way!

6. Stay True — Hua Hsu

This memoir of friendship is rooted in tragedy, as the author’s friend was murdered. Su reflects on the depth of their bond, the shared passions that forged their connection, and the sacredness of friendship even in the face of loss.

Stay True: A Memoir

5. The Drive: Searching for Lost Memories on the Pan-American Highway — Teresa Bruce

I read several beloved travel and friendship memoirs, and Bruce’s journey stood out. In it, she retraces her parents’ attempt to drive the Pan-American Highway after tragedy had struck their family. Traveling with her husband, she not only searches for her father’s homemade camper and reconnects with people from her past, but also uncovers insights into the political dynamics of the regions she visits. Along the way, she learns more about herself, her fears, and what matters most.

The Drive: Searching for Lost Memories on the Pan-American Highway

4. Small Wonder — Walter Henry Nelson

This book focuses on the history of the Volkswagen. While it wasn’t the most riveting read, I learned a great deal about the Porsche legacy, pre- and post-WWII Germany, and the transition that led to Volkswagen’s long-term success. For my project, I found myself reflecting on how relationships form and grow when people share a dream and vision together.

Small Wonder: The Amazing Story of the Volkswagen Beetle

3. On Friendship — Cicero

Of all the books I’ve read on friendship, this short work by the Roman statesman ended up with the most dog-eared pages. Written as a dialogue between friends reflecting on the death of a companion, it examines what makes a good friend, the meaning of friendship, and the ways it can be distorted. Cicero’s reflections come from someone who had clearly thought deeply about the subject, and I appreciated the ancient perspective compared to the more modern works I’ve read.

On Friendship

2. The Church in an Age of Secular Mysticisms — Andrew Root

Root is an academic writer who consistently engages with the great philosophers and theologians of both the past and present. One idea from this book that has stayed with me is his claim that today’s average person — whom he sees as deeply religious, but in a hyper-individualized way — is more likely to look to memoirs for spiritual guidance. A memoir is, after all, one individual authentically opening themselves to another. This poses both a challenge and an opportunity for Christians like me. Root maps how contemporary memoirs intersect with the true spirituality that comes only from God. My hope, in light of this, is to invite people into connection with me while pointing beyond myself to the gift only God can give.

Church in an Age of Secular Mysticisms (Ministry in a Secular Age)

1. Wait Till Next Year — Doris Kearns Goodwin

Kearns Goodwin is well-known for her gift in blending memoir with rich historical storytelling. At first glance, this book is about the Brooklyn Dodgers, but as always, it’s about much more. One of the most striking elements for me was the relationship between Doris and her childhood neighbor and friend. That layer of the story made me reflect on what it might look like to reconnect with old friends after years apart.

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