“We don’t see things as they are. We see them as we are.” - Anaïs Nin

If you’ve been reading this substack over the last few weeks you’ll know that I’m writing a series of posts summarising the chapters of my new book, You Don’t Know What You’re M ss ng, ahead of publication on 4th June. The aim is to give you a feel for the shape of the argument, the kinds of stories I use in the book to get the message across, and the ideas I hope will stick with you long after you’ve finished reading it.

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