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Mar 07, 2013 07:03AM
Beautifully written...but oh, so sad...
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Babs wrote: "Beautifully written...but oh, so sad..."It was sad (yes, it did happen, not quite like this, but something very near), but they both died believing the other was still alive.
So beautiful. But I don't think it's sad. Not really. It's just right. And am I right in thinking they don't want to know not for them, but for the other that's left ?Still, I had tears in my eyes. Again.
Liexo wrote: "So beautiful. But I don't think it's sad. Not really. It's just right. And am I right in thinking they don't want to know not for them, but for the other that's left ?Still, I had tears in my eyes..."
They both said on several occasions they dreaded being the last one left. They were both very old when they came up with this scheme, only just on the sunny side of 90. I think it was mutual, a way to stop the other's hurt and to stop being hurt themselves. In the end Jean was the last to go, just a few weeks short of 100th birthday, May, her elder by a scant two years had died about 5 years before.
Liexo wrote: "Thank you for sharing this, Bev, I appreciate. Did you see Jean again ?"No, not after that last visit. She was far too old to make the journey again, but right to the end, she drank a quart of bourbon every month and smoked 20 Marlborough every day:-)) She put her longevity down to best butter, taken liberally.



