This week an interviewer asked a very interesting question. She asked, “What is one question that you wish an interviewer would ask, but hasn't?”

I thought about it, and the question that came to mind was: “Has anyone ever tried to make you feel embarrassed or self-conscious about the genre you choose to write?”

My answer to that is, “Yes. Quite often, in fact.”

When people find out I’m a writer, the next question usually begs, “Oh…what do you write?” It’s at that point I pause, bracing myself for their reaction. Now, I should preface that I live in New York…the self-proclaimed publishing capital of the world…so it goes without say that there are more than just a few literary snobs trolling the cracked sidewalks of the city that never sleeps, and they have no problem letting my words, “I write paranormal romance/urban fantasy–vampires and werewolves, etc.” hang in the air between us like fumes from toxic waste.

Noses wrinkled and a ‘you've got to be kidding me’ look usually accompanies the standard, “Oh,” response, immediately followed by, “I guess some people like ‘white noise’ after a busy day.”
At this point I smile politely and reply, “Yes, romance and fantasy are fun to read, and that’s why it’s a billion dollar a year industry.” …and then, I walk away leaving them speechless.

I used to commute into Manhattan every day for work, and before the age of eBooks, I would read my romances on the train ride into Grand Central Station. I can’t tell you how many times I’d catch people stealthily craning their necks to read over my shoulder…many times the same snotty women that looked down at my choice of book while in earshot of their gaggle of friends.

CJ Elisson, a friend and fellow author says she just cuts people off at the pass, using humor to offset the reaction. She just answers the loaded question with the words, “Vampires and Sex.” According to her, that either shuts people up or makes them laugh. Good either way.

I recently tried CJ’s approach at the post office. The gal working the counter sees me weekly, mailing out book giveaways and swag to contest winners and such. When she asked what it was I kept mailing out, I responded, “My books.” Of course, she asked what kind of books, so I replied, “paranormal smut.” The gal laughed so hard, she actually snorted! So, there you have it! Now, every time she sees me walk into the post office, she smiles! Maybe I’ll surprise her and give her a copy of Twice Cursed. Her smile may be accompanied by a blush the next time I see her, though! LOL!

I LOVE what I write. I’ve always loved the dreamy fantasies that follow a well written romance or urban fantasy, regardless if it’s paranormal, contemporary or historical. It’s escapist, and brings an element of ‘what if’ to the mundane of everyday life. Reading the genre, as well as writing it, brings a smile to my face, and keeps me coming back for more every day. I’m sure you feel the same way, or you wouldn’t be reading this blog…So the next time you’re at the beach, or sitting on a bench at the park, or on a train, plane or bus, and someone says, “What are you reading?” Answer with pride and remember my words.

“Because it’s fun!”