Yes, I Write Sex

If you've read any of my Jack Lazar novels, you may (or may not) have been surprised to come across sex scenes that left very little to the imagination, not to mention a few that were downright outrageous. It all depends on how much you looked into the series beforehand, and/or whether you read the disclaimer on the title page!

But why, you might ask, would an author in the action, mystery & suspense genre include sex in his novels? Is it to stand out from the crowd, sell more books a la Fifty Shades of Grey, or what?

Well, it's not such an easy answer.

While sex may be a taboo subject for some, the reality is that it plays a significant part of our lives. In fact, men think about sex A LOT, whether they admit it or not. And as we all know, sex can be a wonderful if not soul-enriching experience to boot. So how can I ignore something so vital to our very existence and happiness?

Then there's the essence of my lead character, Jack Lazar. Like most men his age, Jack is heavily influenced by his primal urges, which means he can be easily manipulated by women. It is a very real phenomenon, so how much authenticity and depth could I give Jack Lazar if I carved out that integral part of his character?

If I did, it would spoil the intimate relationship my female readers have with Jack, which I believe is a big part of their experience. It's more than just imagining being the woman in his strong arms. It's about getting inside his head, experiencing his emotions, seeing what he sees, and (as one Amazon reviewer pointed out) getting a glimpse of the male psyche. They're actually able to be part of his world instead of standing outside and looking in.

After all, without knowing the intimate thoughts of the person you're with, how close can you really get?

I am also fully aware that women long to be desired, and that's exactly what Jack Lazar does. He truly DESIRES them, and my female readers love that. They also understand that it's in no uncertain terms.

Men, on the other hand, are quite visual, which is why they enjoy explicit descriptions. But one doesn't have to cheapen the experience with unsavory words, and I simply refuse to use them. Besides, I don't think women want to read that stuff, and I want everyone to be happy!

All of that being said, I realize some people don't want to get so personal, and I authentically respect that. But for those with an open mind, I hope they see these scenes as a lot of fun and a path into the character depths of Jack Lazar.
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Published on November 01, 2013 15:27
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