Was Seely stupid? Some may say she was. She is definitely not conventional. An end table on both sides of the couch and a coffee table in the middle would freak her out. Marriage wasn't her thing. Plowing her own road through life was enticing. The suggested road was too boring for her. Did she want sympathy for the craziness that awaited? Absolutely not!! She was ready to face each consequence for her decisions. She was a risk taker and remains a risk taker today.