When a man hopes to find the woman who will be his life partner, he is not looking for the woman with the perfect body. He desires to be physically attracted to his life partner, but what makes a woman physically attractive is a combination of factors. A perfect body and flawless face will not make a woman exceptionally beautiful. It’s what resides within her that transforms into unique beauty. There are women who are amazing and therefore amazingly beautiful.

The geisha’s beauty transcended far beyond her exquisite appearance. Behind her porcelain painted face and luxurious silk kimonos was an artist. Her name literally means artist – (gei) meaning art and (sha) meaning person or doer. She committed her life to studying traditional dance, song, music and other refined arts so she could perform at a professional level. She was revered amongst the most accomplished and popular artists in Japan.

The depth of her beauty extended to all parts of her life. The most popular geisha were admired for their sharp minds. They were master conversationalists who were sought out to host private gatherings for the wealthiest and most elite of international society. The geisha’s intelligence and vast accomplishments became more attractive as these traits were balanced with her femininity, humility, kindness, thoughtfulness and compassion. It was her unique beauty that distinguished her and led her to become one of the most desirable women in the world.

What qualities will make you uniquely beautiful?

Your fun spirit and lovely laugh linger in a man’s mind when you are away from him.

You accentuate your feminine traits to make yourself more beautiful and beckon a man’s attention.  

You dress well and tend to your appearance, showing that you want the best for yourself.  

You speak passionately about your interests and life goals.

Your positive disposition brings light to those around you.

You possess humble confidence and have certainty about your life path.

When faced with a challenge or someone who is difficult, you do not react with anger or frustration. You approach challenges with calm and wisdom.  

You are intelligent and thoughtful in all conversations. All who meet you want to converse with you.

Your smile reveals you want to make a positive connection to those around you. You prevent that which is negative to affect you. Your energy is not worth wasted on feeding into negativity. You move with graceful confidence, demonstrating you know your worth and value.

You avoid gossiping because you realize everyone has a personal battle and deserves to be helped rather than put down.

You work hard to better all areas of your life – your work, relationships with your friends and family, and your personal development.  

You are committed to your interests and hobbies because it’s important to you to do what you enjoy and they help you become more connected to yourself.

You do what you believe in your soul is right rather than be directed by others because it will only distance you from your true self.

Your beauty should bring out the best of you and make you forever memorable to a man. With age and time, your physical beauty will fade. From today and until the rest of your life, it is your unique inner beauty that will set you apart. The geisha created a beauty and world that uniquely belonged to her, leaving her imprint on the world. Your unique beauty will place you amongst the women most desired by men.

Yours in spirit,

Hanako

Author of The Geisha Secret