What I’ve learned about surviving is that it’s not possible without finding things to be thankful for. Obviously, this week brings with it many family events, many moments of being asked what I’m thankful for. Over the last five years, I’ve found more and more to cherish. Interestingly enough, the more I can appreciate, the easier my recovery has become. Finding silver-linings has been everything I’ve needed.

So this week, when my aunt makes us go around the table and mention one thing we’re thankful for, I’ll have a hard time deciding which to say. Sure, I could say my husband: he’s my rock, my hero and my sanity. The yin to my sass. I could say my Watson: he’s the constant in my life, the one who taught me about unconditional love. Or my newly rebuilt relationships with my family. I could mention my friends who’ve proven, over and over again, just how unselfish they are. Or finishing my book. Speaking at Voices Ending Violence. Beginning the second one (kind of).

Or I could talk about each of you, being here and rooting for me, even when your own lives could use the love. You see, I would be nothing without your friendships. This place? Barren and lonely. And, if somebody hadn’t found me, then maybe none of what I have now would be possible.

I wouldn’t have known about therapy as soon as I did.

I wouldn’t have met the writers who encouraged me to pursue what they so adamantly called my talent.

You wouldn’t have told your friends about my book, and sales wouldn’t continue happening.

And I wouldn’t have had the courage to say and do everything I’ve done to this point without your encouragement. Maybe that means I wouldn’t have any of the goodness I do now.

So, this year, when I say what I’m thankful for, you will be in my heart. No matter where you are or what you’re doing. I’m thankful for you.

And, in the spirit of giving, if you haven’t yet been able to order The House on Sunset, please comment below. I have two eBooks I’d like to giveaway to people who have found me through my blog. Whether this is your first time here or you’ve followed me since Future4fina, the fact remains I would be nothing without you.

The first two people to comment with their email addresses will be sent the eBook invite via Amazon, no questions asked. Because I’m thankful for you being here.

And that’s the best damn feeling in the entire world.