For years, I have been working on a list of questions that would quickly reveal someone’s history and personality. Think of it like speed dating. Not everyone will agree to be “grilled,” but it’s a fun and informative activity when someonedoes.

As well as interviewing new acquaintances, these are great questions to ask existingfriends and familytolearn new facts about them.

Here are my current questions:

1. What childhood accomplishment were you most proud of?

Myanswer: Buying my horse. I always...