My wife and I did a postmortem review of the family vacation in Florida. Old dynamics still rear when siblings and cousins get together. But what we realized was we all have the power to change, evolve and grow. And so old dynamics can fade away. They can die. To make room for the new. The power, we realized, is in our hands. And truly, I think that's the case for everyone. As Marianne Williamson wrote, "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us." I can repeat that to myself over and over and over.