I think you have a great balance between both points of view. Do not try and change your writing style. It is what makes your books so good. It is what makes the reader become at part of you characters lives. They become real not just another story.

Thanks for letting me hear it! I kind of like it both ways. I like the sensitive male, but most guys tell me a sensitive male is a woman. I was told that a man thinks in his head the worst unimaginable thoughts and then he's says the right thing.
I read one review for Grey that said that she felt he was sweet in FSOG until she heard his actual thoughts in Grey. I was like then ELJ did her job in writing the male voice. But I'm a stinker... I love/hate the Grey-bashing