I know the title is harsh but sadly for some hopeful writers it rings true. I’m often astounded by the number of people who contact me, wanting to start a career, but are afraid of what their religious parents, friends or children might think.

Sometimes I send a few sentences filled with colorful encouraging words, but usually my response ends like this: Find another career, precious. This shit ain’t for you.

Storytellers…like actors, rappers, etc, must feel free enough to reach the truth. No matter how vulgar or controversial the message, if it’s steeped in truth it is your duty to take us there.

And when you do your loved ones should respect your art.

With the exception of children book authors, most of the time for us urban fiction bitches that’s not the case.

We must be bold enough to say to ourselves, ‘I will tell my story no matter who the fuck likes it!’

There’s freedom with being who you are as an artist. And you’ll find if you stand strong long enough, this stance takes precedence in your relationships with your family and friends…always for the better.

I’m not speaking of being rude for no reason, or mean to those who truly care for you. I’m speaking about not wasting another day pushing away from your dream.

There’s nothing wrong with standing on your own feet, making your own lane or writing the stories that call to your heart. There is always a market for writers who choose to be honest and tell the darkest stories.

Never waste a lifetime pleasing those outside of yourself.

You won’t win.

The freedom to be your best starts now. I spend hundreds of dollars on writers who express honesty in their books. It’s so refreshing.

So what will you do?