You'll find Amazon awash with books about changing your life or, better still, changing your career.  There are people who have done it and want to shout about it everywhere. Radio, podcasts, social media are full of inspirational material to get you out of that hole. Then there's the real world where over a cup of tea people bond over their loathing of the statue quo. Whenever this common subject crops up, I have to stare at my feet and fidget or maybe fake an urgent need to respond to a text