Never Complain in Life
Complaining is never the solution for any problem. In fact, it is the easiest thing to do. Even a fool can complain. All great people have worked and risen against odd circumstances and come out a winner. They have an inherent vision to see opportunity even in adverse circumstances. Just like kites rise against the wind, they too keep learning and improving constantly and climb the ladder of success.
Why You Should Never Complain
When you complain, you send out wrong vibrations.You present yourself as a victim who is made to suffer and do not look under control. A person who is not in control of his own life will never be able to show leadership at work.
Secondly, a complainer becomes a negative person, speaking ill about others, his organization and about life itself. With such a negative aura around yourself, can you even think of succeeding in any realm of life?
Thirdly, every time you complain, you are etching the expressions in your own mind too! After some days, they seem so real to you that you actually start wondering why you are continuing in the organization or with your work! Either you resign or you attract circumstances that see to it that you are out of the place.
Complaining is never the solution for anything.
Well, if you detest something, either take action and do something about it or accept your situation and derive the best of what you can. Just complaining for the same things every day, without thinking of ways to solve your problems is futile.
Complaining also suggests that you are not in gratitude. For a happy and joyful life, it is necessary that you are in gratitude for all that you already possess. Only then will you bring in abundance in your life.
Is Your Problem Genuine?
It is possible that sometimes your problem is genuine. Well, in that case, just keep your balance of mind and think deeply. You will find that invariably there are about five solutions to every problem! Yes, this is true. But, you have to sit quietly and meditate on these five solutions. When your focus will shift to finding solutions for your predicament, well, you will certainly come out victorious.
Personally, I have solved my difficult problems by sleeping over them! Sounds strange though. I say my problem to the Almighty and ask Him for the solution. For instance, my college had misplaced my class X Board marks certificate. I had the Photostat copy of the certificate and that was enough. However, for my LL.B. admission, I was asked to bring this certificate.
Who would go all the way to Bhopal in Madhya Pradesh to get it? Most of the times, it is a holiday and the University counter was closed. Where would we stay there? Then, loss of studies for the children too had to be taken into account. Well, I slept over the problem after telling the Almighty about my predicament.
When I got up in the morning, I had the solution in my mind! Why not ask the Principal of my old school to send it to me. Though the Principal was new and did not know me, he inquired from my batch mates about me and within a few months, the original board certificate was in my hands! It was like a miracle for me.
Pray Instead of Complaining!
A better thing to do whenever you feel like complaining is to be in prayer. A prayerful mind will never complain. You deplete your own energy by complaining and will feel tired. However, connecting to a Higher source will fill you with renewed energy and enthusiasm.
In life, every moment you have a choice. You can choose happiness or just be satisfied complaining.However, you will find that there is no end to complaining! Why not choose to be a victor rather than fretting and whining. Pray and work hard to find the right solutions to each of your problems and embrace happiness!
Just tell me, when you visit a place of worship and the priest offers you 'prasad', do you tell him, ''Not this, give me some other thing.'' Similarly, take whatever comes your way as a gift of God. Either have the resilience to change your circumstances or as Swami Sukhbodhananda says, 'Accept the isness of what is' and keep going, striving happily.
Happy thoughts bring joy in your life. People want to be with joyful and zestful people and not complainers. Decide today to see and focus on all that is beautiful, wherever you are standing right now and see yourself soaring high up in your happiness quotient!
Why You Should Never Complain
When you complain, you send out wrong vibrations.You present yourself as a victim who is made to suffer and do not look under control. A person who is not in control of his own life will never be able to show leadership at work.
Secondly, a complainer becomes a negative person, speaking ill about others, his organization and about life itself. With such a negative aura around yourself, can you even think of succeeding in any realm of life?
Thirdly, every time you complain, you are etching the expressions in your own mind too! After some days, they seem so real to you that you actually start wondering why you are continuing in the organization or with your work! Either you resign or you attract circumstances that see to it that you are out of the place.
Complaining is never the solution for anything.
Well, if you detest something, either take action and do something about it or accept your situation and derive the best of what you can. Just complaining for the same things every day, without thinking of ways to solve your problems is futile.
Complaining also suggests that you are not in gratitude. For a happy and joyful life, it is necessary that you are in gratitude for all that you already possess. Only then will you bring in abundance in your life.
Is Your Problem Genuine?
It is possible that sometimes your problem is genuine. Well, in that case, just keep your balance of mind and think deeply. You will find that invariably there are about five solutions to every problem! Yes, this is true. But, you have to sit quietly and meditate on these five solutions. When your focus will shift to finding solutions for your predicament, well, you will certainly come out victorious.
Personally, I have solved my difficult problems by sleeping over them! Sounds strange though. I say my problem to the Almighty and ask Him for the solution. For instance, my college had misplaced my class X Board marks certificate. I had the Photostat copy of the certificate and that was enough. However, for my LL.B. admission, I was asked to bring this certificate.
Who would go all the way to Bhopal in Madhya Pradesh to get it? Most of the times, it is a holiday and the University counter was closed. Where would we stay there? Then, loss of studies for the children too had to be taken into account. Well, I slept over the problem after telling the Almighty about my predicament.
When I got up in the morning, I had the solution in my mind! Why not ask the Principal of my old school to send it to me. Though the Principal was new and did not know me, he inquired from my batch mates about me and within a few months, the original board certificate was in my hands! It was like a miracle for me.
Pray Instead of Complaining!
A better thing to do whenever you feel like complaining is to be in prayer. A prayerful mind will never complain. You deplete your own energy by complaining and will feel tired. However, connecting to a Higher source will fill you with renewed energy and enthusiasm.
In life, every moment you have a choice. You can choose happiness or just be satisfied complaining.However, you will find that there is no end to complaining! Why not choose to be a victor rather than fretting and whining. Pray and work hard to find the right solutions to each of your problems and embrace happiness!
Just tell me, when you visit a place of worship and the priest offers you 'prasad', do you tell him, ''Not this, give me some other thing.'' Similarly, take whatever comes your way as a gift of God. Either have the resilience to change your circumstances or as Swami Sukhbodhananda says, 'Accept the isness of what is' and keep going, striving happily.
Happy thoughts bring joy in your life. People want to be with joyful and zestful people and not complainers. Decide today to see and focus on all that is beautiful, wherever you are standing right now and see yourself soaring high up in your happiness quotient!
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