Comments on Controlling/Sexy/Possessive Men - page 1

Love me a dominant man!

Ew.

Cd wrote: "Love me a dominant man!"

i second the motion :)

love this list. thank you for whoever created this list. ;)

Are these in some kind of order? I think I need to read them all anyway :D

Shei wrote: "Are these in some kind of order? I think I need to read them all anyway :D"

yeah the ones that are liked the most/have the highest rating are first and then the lowest are last but there not necissarly the best... but I gave all of the ones here that I read a 4 or 5 star so far besides who cares about the book it's the uber hot male charaters that matter the most.

Taya wrote: "Shei wrote: "Are these in some kind of order? I think I need to read them all anyway :D"

yeah the ones that are liked the most/have the highest rating are first and then the lowest are last but th..."

Hahah! you're completely right about that! I'm just too lazy right now to read the summary for each but I'll probably end up reading them anyway, I can't never have enough possesive men ♥ the darker the better...

Lovely list.. I guess I know what I like the most :)

Makhda wrote: "love this list. thank you for whoever created this list. ;)"

Welcome :)

I Love dominant/possessive/jealous/controlling heroes and I've read numerous plots with such characters but this list is AWESOME. I've hardly read many books on this list and I'm surprised. Can't wait to read all these books :D

Hush Hush is the only book that think without sex...for now....

Wow, , I must read at least five books that are on this list. XD

Christian Grey <3

:)

Taya wrote: "Cd wrote: "Love me a dominant man!"

i second the motion :)"

Ill third fourth and fifth it lmao, I mean really alpha males are why i read books, there are no more strong men left in this world it seems

Gideon Cross from Bared to you and Christian Grey from fifty shades of grey. OMG. <3

Jeanne wrote: "Gideon Cross from Bared to you and Christian Grey from fifty shades of grey. OMG. <3"

Ohhh Gideon Cross <3<3 Love him. ;)

CD wrote: "Love me a dominant man!"

I agree

I love you guys you make me feel less awkward about looking at this list

who knew so many people searched for dominant men as their entertainment in fiction

however they are only fictional characters so dont get too attached ladies!

and gents

This list is seriously missing The Lords Of the Underworld!!!

I love a lot of these books... Effortless serious is amazing love me some kellan!!!

why do women seem to think that jealousy and possessiveness is a sign that the guy really loves you? It's not. It's a sign that he is actually insecure, doesn't respect boundaries and only respects his own needs. It's not romantic, and possessive/controlling shouldn't be in the same sentence as sexy. Because it's anything BUT sexy.

Sasha wrote: "why do women seem to think that jealousy and possessiveness is a sign that the guy really loves you? It's not. It's a sign that he is actually insecure, doesn't respect boundaries and only respects..."

ive dated guys who werent and guys who are, and the passion i had with the possessive ones was sooo intense, i always felt wanted, desired, needed....dont know if its everyones version of love, but wow....and books are magnified so MEOW

Jamie *Vamp Lover* wrote: "Sasha wrote: "why do women seem to think that jealousy and possessiveness is a sign that the guy really loves you? It's not. It's a sign that he is actually insecure, doesn't respect boundaries an..."

I would mostly worry about that controlling possessiveness turning into something more dangerous. I am all for, believe me, passionate guys who love the hell out of you. I love love love passion, in a healthy way. But there's a difference between assertive and controlling. Healthy and unhealthy.
I think that there are non controlling and scary ways to show someone you really value and love them. And if a guy really respects and wants me, he would respect my right to choose. Guys who threaten you, tell you they're gonna kill themselves if you leave them or something like that are just mentally unstable. I find it hard to see how it's romantic.

There's certainly a time and place to be all "rawr take me here and now", and that's the bedroom, with a consenting partner.

Sasha wrote: "Jamie *Vamp Lover* wrote: "Sasha wrote: "why do women seem to think that jealousy and possessiveness is a sign that the guy really loves you? It's not. It's a sign that he is actually insecure, do..."

Guess i got lucky, i mean my breakups werent just simple but there were never any threats,or threats to kill themselves....

but yeah for the better of it i do agree with what you are saying and the difference and with most of the books i have read off the list, i have to say most are just the alpha males, not the suicidal or homicidal type in that type of way, unless someone messes with their woman... honestily if they are suicidal or abusive i dont really consider them alpha

Jamie *Vamp Lover* wrote: "Sasha wrote: "Jamie *Vamp Lover* wrote: "Sasha wrote: "why do women seem to think that jealousy and possessiveness is a sign that the guy really loves you? It's not. It's a sign that he is actual..."
I guess it depends on the book. I haven't read every single one of the list, obviously. But novels like 50 shades of grey for example definitely feature an unhealthy dynamic that's presented as sexy and romantic, when really in real life a guy like that would just come off as a total jerk. Unless of course being rich and hot justifies having a terrible personality.

Thank you for this list. it`s grate!!!! Love it!!

JESSE WARD from This Man & Beneath This Man by Jodi Ellen Malpas...OMG!!!!

CD wrote: "Love me a dominant man!" me too chica!

Good List!

After reading 50 Shades, I had yet to find another book or series that was just as intense until I started reading the Up In The Air trilogy. I have not met another man as dominant and loving as Christian until James Cavendish entered my life. Now I am almost torn between which one would be better. The sex scenes are hot, they do it in many places on a plane and also on horseback. It's amazing and I love it!

Kassi wrote: "Jeanne wrote: "Gideon Cross from Bared to you and Christian Grey from fifty shades of grey. OMG.

Ohhh Gideon Cross <3<3 Love him. ;)"

I <3 Them Both And if u think there good u should definitly read "Undeniable" By: Madeline Sheehan

Suzanne wrote: "Good List!"


Karen wrote: "After reading 50 Shades, I had yet to find another book or series that was just as intense until I started reading the Up In The Air trilogy. I have not met another man as dominant and loving as Ch..."


Your right he was dominated in a very good way

Jeanne wrote: "Gideon Cross from Bared to you and Christian Grey from fifty shades of grey. OMG. <3"

I love me some Christian Grey and Gideon Cross. However there is another male character out there that I loved, which hasn't been mentioned. James Cavendish from the Up In The Air trilogy. He was lovely. There was another series that was supposed to fit along those same lines, but I fell for a supporting character than the main male lead. The After Dark trilogy. Didn't care too much for it, but Andrei in those books is who I would choose rather than Dominic, the one the author chose. If you ever read those books you would understand why I choose who I choose. ;)

Karen wrote: "After reading 50 Shades, I had yet to find another book or series that was just as intense until I started reading the Up In The Air trilogy. I have not met another man as dominant and loving as Ch..."

Don't forget the choking scene.

Taya wrote: "Cd wrote: "Love me a dominant man!"

i second the motion :)"

Amen sisters ;)

Well I have a brand new dominant man, older books so many of you may know him, BUT MEOW....Jericho Barrons from the Fever series, HOLY MEOW....the things he says and does...had me feverish while reading them, I literally read the first 5 books in like 4 days.

Love this list.

Hi guys!! I've just added my own book to this list because I do indeed believe Caleb Stone is controlling, so sexy and possessive of Francesca Radley. Check it out! It's called 'From Hate' by Lily Simon.

Thanks :)

I'm trying to figure out how City of Bones belongs in the list. Otherwise great list

I wonder how many controlling guys people who go gaga over the books in this list have actually been with? Escapist fantasy as fine, just recognize that being with a controlling partner rarely makes for a health relationship in real life.

Erin (*is in a reviewing slump*) wrote: "I'm trying to figure out how City of Bones belongs in the list. Otherwise great list"

Not sure it does, though I adore the broody Jace, and his love for Clary, even when they believe they are brother/sister is rather intense. But hes not really dominating

I love this list! I totally rely on what I'm going to read next based on this and they've been perfect for me so far! :)

I can't believe that a list called CONTROLLING/POSESSIVE men exists and is to top it all so popular. :/

CD wrote: "Love me a dominant man!"

Im right there with you sisturr!!

J.W. wrote: "Well I have a brand new dominant man, older books so many of you may know him, BUT MEOW....Jericho Barrons from the Fever series, HOLY MEOW....the things he says and does...had me feverish while re..."
Hahahaa im LOL reading your comment!,Okay how about Blake Knightly from Chasing Beautiful Series?!No words for that man!

Oh aside from Christian from 50 shades,Bennett Ryan aka Beautiful Bastard??Talk about shmexy banter!!Blake Kingtly from Chasing Beautiful...