Curtis Cupach
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David Wong:
Do you have any writing exercises you'd like to suggest? I try and write one thing a day, whether it be a book review or a sketched out interaction between different forms of my insanity. What I have trouble with the most is finding a starting point though. Once I get my foot on the ledge I can blather, I just need to find a better way than blindly kicking the rock face as I scramble in the dark.
David Wong
I can only say what worked for me, which was establishing a site and enforcing an update schedule on myself. Even though on some level I knew I had no readers, I still woke up every day with the mindset that there was an expectant crowd of "customers" waiting to hear what I had to say and that motivated me to push through even if I wasn't feeling it. If I had a bad traffic day, I would say, "I need to write more/better, to win more fans!" If I had a great traffic day, I would say, "I need to write more/better to hold this new group of fans!" But what I was really doing was trying to force myself to stick with it, because deep down I knew I wouldn't otherwise.
This kind of mental trick, where people self-motivate with self-imposed imaginary rules, is really common. Dr. Dre never really got hate mail from people telling him he'd lost it, he just told himself that's what people were saying, to motivate himself to get back in the studio.
Or, it's like if you talk to a millionaire and they're constantly making jokes about how they're broke or fretting over paying too much for a sofa. You think they must be nuts or posturing but the reality is that this is how they stay rich - they constantly tell themselves they're on the verge of poverty. Its a mental trick to keep their motivation up.
But no two people are the same. You might not crave the same approval from the masses that I did so that might not motivate you like it did me. Everyone is different. Half of the writers I work with at Cracked can't really get moving on a piece until the day before the deadline, they need the thread of being fired to get their brain in gear. I've never been like that.
This kind of mental trick, where people self-motivate with self-imposed imaginary rules, is really common. Dr. Dre never really got hate mail from people telling him he'd lost it, he just told himself that's what people were saying, to motivate himself to get back in the studio.
Or, it's like if you talk to a millionaire and they're constantly making jokes about how they're broke or fretting over paying too much for a sofa. You think they must be nuts or posturing but the reality is that this is how they stay rich - they constantly tell themselves they're on the verge of poverty. Its a mental trick to keep their motivation up.
But no two people are the same. You might not crave the same approval from the masses that I did so that might not motivate you like it did me. Everyone is different. Half of the writers I work with at Cracked can't really get moving on a piece until the day before the deadline, they need the thread of being fired to get their brain in gear. I've never been like that.
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Lize Alberts
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David Wong:
Answer truthfully (as you do), did you feel you were destined for big things (in terms of making some difference in the world) from a young age? You are very humble, and I don't want to trick you into not sounding it, but have you experienced that ‘certain amount of power, certain amount of responsibility’ thing, seeing your peers' overall lack of empathy/logic, and will in doing something about it? What drives you?
Juli
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David Wong:
I have kind of a random question, are you by chance visiting Squaw Valley this holiday week? I work at a resort here and there is a David Wong schedule to check in. Since I am a fan I was wondering if that was one and the same as yourself and maybe I can be ready for an autograph? I am a huge fan of all your works so it would be a very awesome holiday treat :)
Caitlin MacEwan
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David Wong:
I wanted to write to say I adore all your books and the movie. They act as a warm blanket against my soul-quivering anxiety, and I have recently purchased the audio-book of JDATE and TBIFOS, because it allows me to drive without crying, which I've heard is generally good for not dying in a spectacular car crash. So I want to say thanks for helping me out, via your books. Is it weird to be thanked for writing?
David Wong
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