Ross H

Ross H asked Michael Finkel:

Hi Michael, I just finished Stranger in the Woods and was very moved by it. I am interested in your description of how hermits frequently experience a "loss of self.” This seems similar to what you hear from Buddhist meditators who reach a deep point in their practice where the concept of self also begins to dissipate. Did you notice this connection and if so what do you make of it? Thanks, Ross

Michael Finkel You are correct, Ross -- the "loss of self" reported by many people seeking solitary lives, and the reports from many experienced Buddhist meditators seem very similar. I believe that that these states are, indeed, very nearly the same. During the course of my research, I've read many descriptions from both hermits and Buddhists, and the same sensations keep repeating themselves. And why not? Both hermits and meditators are exploring what Thoreau called "the private sea, the Atlantic and Pacific Ocean of one's being." And to venture out into these wild internal seas one senses a loss of self... and a gain of, it seems, incredibly deep experiences.

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Miriam W.

Miriam W. asked Michael Finkel:

Hi Michael, I just finished your excellent book, The Stranger in the Woods. I thoroughly enjoyed it and particularly love your writing style. I appreciated your insights and details regarding isolation and the role of suffering which were woven into the story so beautifully. I am recommending your book to my book club and wondered if you could suggest a few questions for our discussion? Miriam

Leo

Leo asked Michael Finkel:

I just want to personally thank you for sharing Knight's story with the rest of the world, especially all the little details that came along with it. I've taken an interest with reading again thanks to your book. The last time I read a book was in 2010! Your views regarding isolation really resonated with me and it's comforting to know I'm not the only one out there. Keep it up and best of luck! Cheers!?

Candace Andrews

Candace Andrews asked Michael Finkel:

I recently finished The Stranger in the Woods and enjoyed it very much. I was especially struck by your relationship to Knight, which did not seem to be reciprocated; i.e., the lilac spring and apple pie that were refused; your concern about Knight’s admission to wanting to take a walk with “The Lady of the Woods.” What was it about Knight that accounts for your concern and feelings for him?

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