Thanks for giving me some insight. I would've felt better about this story if you had allowed the h to also try to move on (not wait 5 yrs & just the once). I get annoyed when the H gets to screw around all over the place but the h remains pristine pure because she loved the H so much? Well that just goes to show he didn't love her in my opinion, just a shallow jerk who didn't try hard enough to find her.