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“Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans.”
― Allen Saunders

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”
― Albert Einstein

“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”
― Bob Marley

“أخاف أن أحبك، فأفقدك ثم أتألم

وأخاف أيضا أن لا أحبك.. فتضيع فرصة الحب فأندم!

أعيش معك حالة لا توازن.. منذ عرفتك حياتي تسير بانتظام

فيما -قلبي- تسوده الفوضى

منذ عرفتك أحس أنني معجبة بك الى آخر حدود الإعجاب

فيك أشياء أحتاجها في هذا الزمن، وجدت فيك ماكان ينقصني ويُكمل بهاء روحي وصفاء عالمي ..

لكنني أخشى من النهايات دوماً! فأنا امرأة تعودت دائماً أن تفقد أي شيء تحبه

نحن عادة نستطيع أن نكبح جماح العاطفة في البدء، لكننا نعجز عنه في النهاية

وهذا مايجعلني أخاف كثيراً كثيراً

فعلمني كيف أحبك بلا ألم / وكيف لا أحبك بلا ندم .. !”
― أحلام مستغانمي, ذاكرة الجسد

“I would venture to guess that Anon, who wrote so many poems without signing them, was often a woman.”
― Virginia Woolf, A Room of One’s Own

“The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.”
― Terry Pratchett, Diggers

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you'll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to your spiritual master...”
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil

“If you can capture a woman's imagination, then you will have her. But imagination is a strange creature. It needs time and distance to function properly.”
― Kathleen Tessaro

“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche

“This life is what you make it. No matter what, you're going to mess up sometimes, it's a universal truth. But the good part is you get to decide how you're going to mess it up. Girls will be your friends - they'll act like it anyway. But just remember, some come, some go. The ones that stay with you through everything - they're your true best friends. Don't let go of them. Also remember, sisters make the best friends in the world. As for lovers, well, they'll come and go too. And baby, I hate to say it, most of them - actually pretty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you can't give up because if you give up, you'll never find your soulmate. You'll never find that half who makes you whole and that goes for everything. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in yourself, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie? So keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life's a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.”
― Marilyn Monroe

“I've been making a list of the things they don't teach you at school. They don't teach you how to love somebody. They don't teach you how to be famous. They don't teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don't teach you how to walk away from someone you don't love any longer. They don't teach you how to know what's going on in someone else's mind. They don't teach you what to say to someone who's dying. They don't teach you anything worth knowing.”
― Neil Gaiman, The Sandman, Vol. 9: The Kindly Ones

“وقالت : سوف تنسانى
وتنسى أننى يوماً
وهبتك نبض وجدانى
وتعشق موجة أخرى
و تهجر دفء شطآنى
وتجلس مثلما كنا
لتسمع بعض ألحانى
و لا تعنيك أحزانى
و يسقط كامنى اسمى
و سوف يتوه عنوانى
ترى .. ستقول يا عمرى
بأنك كنت تهوانى ؟!!
فقلت : هواك إيمانى
ومغفرتى وعصيانى
أتيتك والمنى عندى
بقايا بين أحضانى
ربيع مات طائره
على أنقاض بستان
رياح الحزن تعصرنى
وتسخر بين وجدانى
أحبكِ واحة هدأت
عليها كل أحزانى
أحبكِ نسمة تروى
لصمت الناس .. ألحانى
أحبكِ نشوة تسرى
وتشعل نار بركانى
أحبكِ انتِ يا أملاً
كضوء الصبح يلقانى
أماتَ الحب عشاقا
وحبكِ انتِ أحيانى
و لو خيرت فى وطن
لقلت : هواكِ أوطانى
و لو انساكى يا عمرى
حنايا القلب .. تنسانى
إذا ما ضعت فى درب
ففى عينيك .. عنوانى”
― فاروق جويدة, في عينيك عنواني

“أشخاص كثر نلتقيهم في حياتنا , في مفارق و محطات محددة , ولا نعلم تأثيرهم في مسيرة تحولاتنا العقلية و النفسية إلا بمرور السنين .”
― ربيع جابر, أميركا