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  • #1
    Ottessa Moshfegh
    “I did crave attention, but I refused to humiliate myself by asking for it.”
    Ottessa Moshfegh, My Year of Rest and Relaxation

  • #2
    Ottessa Moshfegh
    “The notion of my future suddenly snapped into focus: it didn't exist yet.”
    Ottessa Moshfegh, My Year of Rest and Relaxation

  • #3
    Ottessa Moshfegh
    “Reva often spoke about 'settling down.' That sounded like death to me.

    'I'd rather be alone than anybody's live-in prostitute,' I said to Reva.”
    Ottessa Moshfegh, My Year of Rest and Relaxation

  • #4
    Chelsea G. Summers
    “Female psychopaths, researchers eventually realized, don't present like the males. To which I respond: No shit. We women have an emotional wiliness that shellacs us in glossy patina of caring. We have been raised to take interest in promoting healthy interior lives of other humans; preparation, I suppose, for taking on the emotional labor of motherhood - or marriage; either way, really. Few women come into maturity unscathed by the suffocating pink press of girlhood, and even psychopaths are touched by the long, frilly arm of feminine expectations. It's not that women psychopaths don't exist; it's that we fake it better than men.”
    Chelsea G. Summers, A Certain Hunger

  • #5
    Chelsea G. Summers
    “You who call women the fairer sex, you may repress and deny all you want, but some of us were born with a howling void where our souls should sway”
    Chelsea G. Summers, A Certain Hunger

  • #6
    Chelsea G. Summers
    “Junk food was rebellion, rebellion was femininity, femininity was junk.”
    Chelsea G. Summers, A Certain Hunger

  • #7
    Chelsea G. Summers
    “Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.”
    Chelsea G. Summers, A Certain Hunger

  • #8
    Emma Cline
    “That was part of being a girl--you were resigned to whatever feedback you'd get. If you got mad, you were crazy, and if you didn't react, you were a bitch. The only thing you could do was smile from the corner they'd backed you into. Implicate yourself in the joke even if the joke was always on you.”
    Emma Cline, The Girls

  • #9
    Emma Cline
    “I waited to be told what was good about me. [...] All that time I had spent readying myself, the articles that taught me life was really just a waiting room until someone noticed you- the boys had spent that time becoming themselves.”
    Emma Cline, The Girls

  • #10
    Emma Cline
    “Girls are the only ones who can really give each other close attention, the kind we equate with being loved. They noticed what we want noticed.”
    Emma Cline, The Girls

  • #11
    Emma Cline
    “Poor girls. The world fattens them on the promise of love. How badly they need it, and how little most of them will ever get.”
    Emma Cline, The Girls

  • #12
    Emma Cline
    “I should have known that when men warn you to be careful, often they are warning you of the dark movie playing across their own brains. Some violent daydream prompting their guilty exhortations to 'make it home safe.”
    Emma Cline, The Girls

  • #13
    Sarah Kay
    “If I should have a daughter…“Instead of “Mom”, she’s gonna call me “Point B.” Because that way, she knows that no matter what happens, at least she can always find her way to me. And I’m going to paint the solar system on the back of her hands so that she has to learn the entire universe before she can say “Oh, I know that like the back of my hand.”

    She’s gonna learn that this life will hit you, hard, in the face, wait for you to get back up so it can kick you in the stomach. But getting the wind knocked out of you is the only way to remind your lungs how much they like the taste of air. There is hurt, here, that cannot be fixed by band-aids or poetry, so the first time she realizes that Wonder-woman isn’t coming, I’ll make sure she knows she doesn’t have to wear the cape all by herself. Because no matter how wide you stretch your fingers, your hands will always be too small to catch all the pain you want to heal. Believe me, I’ve tried.

    And “Baby,” I’ll tell her “don’t keep your nose up in the air like that, I know that trick, you’re just smelling for smoke so you can follow the trail back to a burning house so you can find the boy who lost everything in the fire to see if you can save him. Or else, find the boy who lit the fire in the first place to see if you can change him.”

    But I know that she will anyway, so instead I’ll always keep an extra supply of chocolate and rain boats nearby, ‘cause there is no heartbreak that chocolate can’t fix. Okay, there’s a few heartbreaks chocolate can’t fix. But that’s what the rain boots are for, because rain will wash away everything if you let it.

    I want her to see the world through the underside of a glass bottom boat, to look through a magnifying glass at the galaxies that exist on the pin point of a human mind. Because that’s how my mom taught me. That there’ll be days like this, “There’ll be days like this my momma said” when you open your hands to catch and wind up with only blisters and bruises. When you step out of the phone booth and try to fly and the very people you wanna save are the ones standing on your cape. When your boots will fill with rain and you’ll be up to your knees in disappointment and those are the very days you have all the more reason to say “thank you,” ‘cause there is nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline no matter how many times it’s sent away.

    You will put the “wind” in win some lose some, you will put the “star” in starting over and over, and no matter how many land mines erupt in a minute be sure your mind lands on the beauty of this funny place called life.

    And yes, on a scale from one to over-trusting I am pretty damn naive but I want her to know that this world is made out of sugar. It can crumble so easily but don’t be afraid to stick your tongue out and taste it.

    “Baby,” I’ll tell her “remember your mama is a worrier but your papa is a warrior and you are the girl with small hands and big eyes who never stops asking for more.”

    Remember that good things come in threes and so do bad things and always apologize when you’ve done something wrong but don’t you ever apologize for the way your eyes refuse to stop shining.

    Your voice is small but don’t ever stop singing and when they finally hand you heartbreak, slip hatred and war under your doorstep and hand you hand-outs on street corners of cynicism and defeat, you tell them that they really ought to meet your mother.”
    Sarah Kay

  • #14
    Sarah Kay
    “I have seen the best of you, and the worst of you, and I choose both.”
    Sarah Kay

  • #15
    Sarah Kay
    “Because there’s nothing more beautiful than the way the ocean refuses to stop kissing the shoreline, no matter how many times it’s sent away.”
    Sarah Kay

  • #16
    Sarah Kay
    “You are a woman. Skin and bones, veins and nerves, hair and sweat. You are not made of metaphors. Not apologies, not excuses.”
    Sarah Kay

  • #17
    Sarah Kay
    “Forgive yourself for the decisions you have made, the ones you still call mistakes when you tuck them in at night”
    Sarah Kay, No Matter the Wreckage: Poems

  • #18
    Susanna Kaysen
    “Crazy isn't being broken or swallowing a dark secret. It's you or me amplified. If you ever told a lie and enjoyed it. If you ever wished you could be a child forever.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #19
    Susanna Kaysen
    “I told her once I wasn’t good at anything. She told me survival is a talent.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #20
    Susanna Kaysen
    “Actually, it was only part of myself I wanted to kill: the part that wanted to kill herself, that dragged me into the suicide debate and made every window, kitchen implement, and subway station a rehearsal for tragedy.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #21
    Susanna Kaysen
    “Was insanity just a matter of dropping the act?”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #22
    Susanna Kaysen
    “The world didn't stop because we weren't in it anymore.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #23
    Susanna Kaysen
    “What does borderline personality mean, anyhow? It appears to be a way station between neurosis and psychosis: a fractured but not disassembled psyche. Though to quote my post-Melvin psychiatrist: "It's what they call people whose lifestyles bother them.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #24
    Susanna Kaysen
    “My chronic feelings of emptiness and boredom came from the fact that I was living a life based on my incapacities, which were numerous.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #25
    Susanna Kaysen
    “The disorder is more common in women."
    Note the construction of that sentence. They did not write, "The disorder is more common in women." It would still be suspect, but they didn't bother trying to cover their tracks.
    Many disorders, judging by the hospital population, were more commonly diagnosed in women. Take, for example, "compulsive promiscuity."
    How many girls do you think a seventeen-year-old boy would have to screw to earn the label "compulsively promiscuous"? Three? No, not enough. Six? Doubtful. Ten? That seems more likely. Probably in the fifteen-to-twenty range, would be my guess - if they ever put that label on boys, which I don't recall their doing....
    In the list of six "potentially self-damaging" activities favored by the borderline personality, three are commonly associated with women (shopping sprees, shoplifting, and eating binges) and one with men (reckless driving). One is not "gender specific," as they say these days (psychoactive substance abuse). And the definition of the other (casual sex) is in the eye of the beholder.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #26
    Susanna Kaysen
    “It was a spring day, the sort that gives people hope: all soft winds and delicate smells of warm earth. Suicide weather.”
    Susanna Kaysen, Girl, Interrupted

  • #27
    Eliza  Clark
    “Was it my idea to have him hurt me, or did he just let me think it was?”
    Eliza Clark, Boy Parts

  • #28
    Eliza  Clark
    “You want to think you're not like other women, but you are, you know. You're still... that's still how the rest of the world, how men are going to see you. Like, I know you hate labels, but you like... You live in a woman's body. You're vulnerable. No matter what you think, you're vulnerable...”
    Eliza Clark, Boy Parts

  • #29
    Eliza  Clark
    “Do I have to smash a glass over the head of every single man I come into contact with, just so I leave a fucking mark?”
    Eliza Clark, Boy Parts

  • #30
    Kate Elizabeth Russell
    “The excuses we make for them are outrageous, but they’re nothing compared with the ones we make for ourselves.”
    Kate Elizabeth Russell, My Dark Vanessa



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