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  • #1
    Rollo May
    “It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when they have lost their way.”
    Rollo May

  • #2
    Rollo May
    “Many people suffer from the fear of finding oneself alone, and so they don't find themselves at all.”
    Rollo May, Man's Search for Himself

  • #3
    Rollo May
    “Intimacy requires courage because risk is inescapable. We cannot know at the outset how the relationship will affect us. Like a chemical mixture, if one of us is changed, both of us will be. Will we grow in self-actualization, or will it destroy us? The one thing we can be certain of is that if we let ourselves fully into the relationship for good or evil, we will not come out unaffected.”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #4
    Rollo May
    “Finding the center of strength within ourselves is in the long run the best contribution we can make to our fellow men. ... One person with indigenous inner strength exercises a great calming effect on panic among people around him. This is what our society needs — not new ideas and inventions; important as these are, and not geniuses and supermen, but persons who can "be", that is, persons who have a center of strength within themselves.”
    Rollo May, Man's Search for Himself

  • #5
    Rollo May
    “Human freedom involves our capacity to pause between the stimulus and response and, in that pause, to choose the one response toward which we wish to throw our weight. The capacity to create ourselves, based upon this freedom, is inseparable from consciousness or self-awareness. (p. 100)”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #6
    Rollo May
    “The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it is not without doubt, but in spite of doubt. (p. 21)”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #7
    Rollo May
    “To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before”
    Rollo May
    tags: love

  • #8
    Rollo May
    “Creative people, as I see them, are distinguished by the fact that they can live with anxiety, even though a high price may be paid in terms of insecurity, sensitivity, and defenselessness for the gift of the “divine madness,” to borrow the term used by the classical Greeks. They do not run away from non-being, but by encountering and wrestling with it, force it to produce being. They knock on silence for an answering music; they pursue meaninglessness until they can force it to mean.”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #9
    Rollo May
    “One must have at least a readiness to love the other person, broadly speaking, if one is to be able to understand him.”
    Rollo May, Existence

  • #10
    Rollo May
    “Good art wounds as well as delights. It must, because our defenses against the truth are wound so tightly around us. But as art chips away at our defenses, it also opens us to healing potentialities that transcend intellectual games and ego-preserving strategies.”
    Rollo May, My Quest for Beauty

  • #11
    Rollo May
    “Dogmatism of all kinds--scientific, economic, moral, as well as political--are threatened by the creative freedom of the artist. This is necessarily and inevitably so. We cannot escape our anxiety over the fact that the artists together with creative persons of all sorts, are the possible destroyer of our nicely ordered systems. (p. 76)”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #12
    Rollo May
    “It is dangerous to know, but it is more dangerous not to know.”
    Rollo May, Love and Will

  • #13
    Rollo May
    “The poet, like the lover, is a menace on the assembly line.”
    Rollo May, Love and Will

  • #14
    Rollo May
    “Artistic symbols and myths speak out of the primordial, preconscious realm of the mind which is powerful and chaotic. Both symbol and myth are ways of bringing order and form into this chaos.”
    Rollo May, My Quest for Beauty

  • #15
    Rollo May
    “If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself." -Rollo May”
    Rollo May

  • #16
    Rollo May
    “When we are dealing with human beings, no truth has reality by itself; it is always dependent upon the reality of the immediate relationship.”
    Rollo May, Existence

  • #17
    Rollo May
    “Because it is possible to create — creating one’s self, willing to be one’s self, as well as creating in all the innumerable daily activities (and these are two phases of the same process) — one has anxiety. One would have no anxiety if there were no possibility whatever. Now creating, actualizing one’s possibilities, always involves negative as well as positive aspects. It always involves destroying the status quo, destroying old patterns within oneself, progressively destroying what one has clung to from childhood on, and creating new and original forms and ways of living. If one does not do this, one is refusing to grow, refusing to avail himself of his possibilities; one is shirking his responsibility to himself. Hence refusal to actualize one’s possibilities brings guilt toward one’s self. But creating also means destroying the status quo of one’s environment, breaking the old forms; it means producing something new and original in human relations as well as in cultural forms (e.g., the creativity of the artist). Thus every experience of creativity has its potentiality of aggression or denial toward other persons in one’s environment or established patterns within one’s self. To put the matter figuratively, in every experience of creativity something in the past is killed that something new in the present may be born. Hence, for Kierkegaard, guilt feeling is always a concomitant of anxiety: both are aspects of experiencing and actualizing possibility. The more creative the person, he held, the more anxiety and guilt are potentially present.”
    Rollo May, The Meaning of Anxiety

  • #18
    Rollo May
    “Tenderness emerges from the fact that the two persons, longing, as all individuals do, to overcome the separateness and isolation to which we are all heir because we are individuals, can participate in a relationship that, for the moment, is not of two isolated selves but a union”
    Rollo May

  • #19
    Rollo May
    “when men at last accept the fact that they cannot successfully lie to themselves, and at last learn to take themselves seriously, they discover previously unknown and often remarkable recuperative powers within themselves.”
    Rollo May, Man's Search for Himself

  • #20
    Rollo May
    “One central need in life is to fulfill its own potential.”
    Rollo May

  • #21
    Rollo May
    “Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about.”
    Rollo May

  • #22
    Rollo May
    “The receptivity of the artist must never be confused with passivity.”
    Rollo May, The Courage to Create

  • #23
    Rollo May
    “If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself.”
    Rollo May

  • #24
    Rollo May
    “It is very difficult to appreciate from the outside what a person in severe anxiety is experiencing. Brown rightly remarked about his friends 'imploring a drowning man [me] to swim when they don't know that under the water his hands and feet are tied.”
    Rollo May, The Meaning of Anxiety

  • #25
    Rollo May
    “To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." --”
    Rollo May

  • #26
    Cheryl Strayed
    “Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can't cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It's just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.”
    Cheryl Strayed, Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar

  • #27
    Shannon L. Alder
    “Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.”
    Shannon L. Alder

  • #28
    “Hopefully as you get older, you start to learn how to live with your demon. It’s hard at first. Some people give their demon so much room that there is no space in their head or bed for love. They feed their demon and it gets really strong and then it makes them stay in abusive relationships or starve their beautiful bodies. But sometimes, you get a little older and get a little bored of the demon. Through good therapy and friends and self-love you can practice treating the demon like a hacky, annoying cousin. Maybe a day even comes when you are getting dressed for a fancy event and it whispers, “You aren’t pretty,” and you go, “I know, I know, now let me find my earrings.” Sometimes you say, “Demon, I promise you I will let you remind me of my ugliness, but right now I am having hot sex so I will check in later.”
    Amy Poehler, Yes Please

  • #29
    “This next song goes out to anybody who’s ever been told that the way that they think or the way that they feel is the wrong way to think or the wrong way to feel. Goes out to anybody who’s ever been pushed down, held back, walked on… Anybody who doesn’t feel comfortable in their own skin, anybody…everybody - It goes out to everybody. It goes out to all of you! And the reason it goes out to all of you is because every single one of you is fucking beautiful. I’ve noticed that there’s a lot of people in the world trying to tell other people that they’re not beautiful. And I don’t stand for that, I think that’s bullshit. Each and every single one of you are gorgeous, believe in yourselves. This song goes out to all of you. It’s called ‘Therapy’.”
    Alex Gaskarth

  • #30
    Bessel van der Kolk
    “As I often tell my students, the two most important phrases in therapy, as in yoga, are “Notice that” and “What happens next?” Once you start approaching your body with curiosity rather than with fear, everything shifts.”
    Bessel A. van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma



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