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  • #1
    Sigmund Freud
    “One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #2
    Sigmund Freud
    “Being entirely honest with oneself is a good exercise.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #3
    Sigmund Freud
    “Most people do not really want freedom, because freedom involves responsibility, and most people are frightened of responsibility.”
    Sigmund Freud, Civilization and Its Discontents

  • #4
    Sigmund Freud
    “Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #5
    Sigmund Freud
    “We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #6
    Sigmund Freud
    “Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #7
    Sigmund Freud
    “He that has eyes to see and ears to hear may convince himself that no mortal can keep a secret. If his lips are silent, he chatters with his fingertips; betrayal oozes out of him at every pore.”
    Sigmund Freud, Introductory Lectures on Psychoanalysis

  • #8
    Sigmund Freud
    “It is impossible to escape the impression that people commonly use false standards of measurement — that they seek power, success and wealth for themselves and admire them in others, and that they underestimate what is of true value in life.”
    Sigmund Freud, Civilization and Its Discontents

  • #9
    Sigmund Freud
    “Religion is an attempt to get control over the sensory world, in which we are placed, by means of the wish-world, which we have developed inside us as a result of biological and psychological necessities. But it cannot achieve its end. Its doctrines carry with them the stamp of the times in which they originated, the ignorant childhood days of the human race. Its consolations deserve no trust. Experience teaches us that the world is not a nursery. The ethical commands, to which religion seeks to lend its weight, require some other foundations instead, for human society cannot do without them, and it is dangerous to link up obedience to them with religious belief. If one attempts to assign to religion its place in man’s evolution, it seems not so much to be a lasting acquisition, as a parallel to the neurosis which the civilized individual must pass through on his way from childhood to maturity.”
    Sigmund Freud , Moses and Monotheism

  • #10
    Sigmund Freud
    “Everywhere I go I find a poet has been there before me.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #11
    Sigmund Freud
    “In so doing, the idea forces itself upon him that religion is comparable to a childhood neurosis, and he is optimistic enough to suppose that mankind will surmount this neurotic phase, just as so many children grow out of their similar neurosis.”
    Sigmund Freud, The Future of an Illusion

  • #12
    Sigmund Freud
    “In the depths of my heart I can’t help being convinced that my dear fellow-men, with a few exceptions, are worthless.”
    Sigmund Freud, Letters of Sigmund Freud, 1873-1939;

  • #13
    Sigmund Freud
    “Whoever loves becomes humble. Those who love have , so to speak , pawned a part of their narcissism.”
    Sigmund Freud

  • #14
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “People with BPD are like people with third degree burns over 90% of their bodies. Lacking emotional skin, they feel agony at the slightest touch or movement.”
    Marsha Linehan

  • #15
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “The bottom line is that if you are in hell, the only way out is to go through a period of sustained misery. Misery is, of course, much better than hell, but it is painful nonetheless. By refusing to accept the misery that it takes to climb out of hell, you end up falling back into hell repeatedly, only to have to start over and over again.”
    Marsha M. Linehan, DBT Skills Training: Manual

  • #16
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “The great thing about treating borderline patients is that it is like having a supervisor always in the room.”
    Marsha M. Linehan, Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder
    tags: bpd, dbt

  • #17
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “The Dialectical Dilemma for the Patient The borderline individual is faced with an apparently irreconcilable dilemma. On the one hand, she has tremendous difficulties with self-regulation of affect and subsequent behavioral competence. She frequently but somewhat unpredictably needs a great deal of assistance, often feels helpless and hopeless, and is afraid of being left alone to fend for herself in a world where she has failed over and over again. Without the ability to predict and control her own well-being, she depends on her social environment to regulate her affect and behavior. On the other hand, she experiences intense shame at behaving dependently in a society that cannot tolerate dependency, and has learned to inhibit expressions of negative affect and helplessness whenever the affect is within controllable limits. Indeed, when in a positive mood, she may be exceptionally competent across a variety of situations. However, in the positive mood state she has difficulty predicting her own behavioral capabilities in a different mood, and thus communicates to others an ability to cope beyond her capabilities. Thus, the borderline individual, even though at times desperate for help, has great difficulty asking for help appropriately or communicating her needs. The inability to integrate or synthesize the notions of helplessness and competence, of noncontrol and control, and of needing and not needing help can lead to further emotional distress and dysfunctional behaviors. Believing that she is competent to “succeed,” the person may experience intense guilt about her presumed lack of motivation when she falls short of objectives. At other times, she experiences extreme anger at others for their lack of understanding and unrealistic expectations. Both the intense guilt and the intense anger can lead to dysfunctional behaviors, including suicide and parasuicide, aimed at reducing the painful emotional states. For the apparently competent person, suicidal behavior is sometimes the only means of communicating to others that she really can’t cope and needs help; that is, suicidal behavior is a cry for help. The behavior may also function as a means to get others to alter their unrealistic expectations—to “prove” to the world that she really cannot do what is expected.”
    Marsha M. Linehan, Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder

  • #18
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “The desire to commit suicide, however, has at its base a belief that life cannot or will not improve. Although that may be the case in some instances, it is not true in all instances. Death, however, rules out hope in all instances. We do not have any data indicating that people who are dead lead better lives.”
    Marsha M. Linehan, Cognitive-Behavioral Treatment of Borderline Personality Disorder

  • #19
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “It is hard to be happy without a life worth living. This is a fundamental tenet of DBT. Of course, all lives are worth living in reality. No life is not worth living. But what is important is that you experience your life as worth living—one that is satisfying, and one that brings happiness.”
    Marsha M. Linehan, DBT Skills Training: Manual

  • #20
    Marsha M. Linehan
    “There’s never a good time for Mindfulness, and there’s never a bad time. Mindfulness is one of those things you simply do, because if you practice being aware - completely open to the universe, just exactly as it is - you will transform your life in time.”
    Marsha M. Linehan



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