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#1

“لا يعني الصبر أن تتحمل المصاعب سلباً، بل يعني أن تكون بعيد النظر بحيث تثق بالنتيجة النهائية التي ستتمخض عن أي عملية. ماذا يعني الصبر؟ إنه يعني أن تنظر إلى الشوكة وترى الوردة، أن تنظر إلى الليل وترى الفجر. أما نفاد الصبر فيعني أن تكون قصير النظر ولا تتمكن من رؤية النتيجة. إن عشاق الله لا ينفد صبرهم مطلقاً، لأنهم يعرفون أنه لكي يصبح الهلال بدراً، فهو يحتاج إلى وقت.”
― إليف شافاق, The Forty Rules of Love

tags: قواعد-العشق-الأربعون

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#2

“إن إلهي ليس بقالاً ولا محاسباً، بل إنه إله عظيم. إله حيّ! فلماذا أريد إلهاً ميتاً؟ إنه حي. اسمه الحي، القيوم. لماذا أتخبط في مخاوف أبدية وقلق لا ينتهي، حيث يقيدني دائماً بالمحرمات والمحظورات؟ فلا حدود لرحمته. إذ إن اسمه الودود، الحميد. إني أحمده بكل كلماتي وتصرفاتي، بشكل طبيعي ويسر كما أتنفس الهواء.
اسمه الحميد. فكيف يمكنني أن أستغيب الآخرين وأشهر بهم وأنا أعلم في أعماق قلبي أن الله هو السميع البصير؟ اسمه البشير. جميل يفوق كل الأحلام والآمال.
الجميل، القيوم، الرحمن، الرحيم. أثناء المجاعات والفيضانات، وخلال الجفاف والظمأ، سأغني وأرقص له حتى تخور ركباتي، وحتى ينهار جسمي، وحتى يتوقف قلبي عن الخفقان. سأحطم نفسي إلى شذرات حتى لا أعدو إلا مجرد ذرة في العدم، عابر سبيل في الفراغ المحض، هباء الهباء في هندسته العظيمة. ولن أكف عن امتداح عظمته وكرمه بامتنان، وسعادة. سأشكره على كل ما منحني إياه وما حرمني منه، لأنه يعرف ما هو الأفضل لي.”
― إليف شافاق, The Forty Rules of Love

tags: قواعد-العشق-الأربعون

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#3

“There are few people whom I really love, and still fewer of whom I think well. The more I see of the world, the more am I dissatisfied with it; and every day confirms my belief of the inconsistency of all human characters, and of the little dependence that can be placed on the appearance of merit or sense.”
― Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice

tags: elizabeth-bennet, jane-austen

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#4

“لا تقدم ابداً شروحاً لأحد.. أصدقاؤك الحقيقيون ليسوا فى حاجة إليها و أعداؤك لن يصدقوها”
― أحلام مستغانمي, com نسيان

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#5

“الناس لاتبوح بأسرارها للأصدقاء وإنما للغرباء في القطارات أو المقاهي العابرة”
― بهاء طاهر

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#6

“فى حياة كل منا أشياء ثمينة جدًا، لكنها تجعل الآخرين يتهموننا بالتفاهة أو الضحالة أو الجنون إذا عرفوا بها، و نتهمهم نحن بالغباء و تبلد المشاعر عندما يبدون سخريتهم.”
― أحمد خالد توفيق

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#7

“Before you can live a part of you has to die. You have to let go of what could have been, how you should have acted and what you wish you would have said differently. You have to accept that you can’t change the past experiences, opinions of others at that moment in time or outcomes from their choices or yours. When you finally recognize that truth then you will understand the true meaning of forgiveness of yourself and others. From this point you will finally be free.”
― Shannon Alder

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#8

“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!”
― Shannon L. Alder

tags: alienating, bad-memories, blaming-others, broken-records, brutal-truth, bury, burying, dating, degrading-yourself, distancing, drowning-others, family, family-conflict, fights, find-joy, finding-focus, focus-on-positive, forget-it, forgive, friends, funeral-director, funny, give-it-up, happiness, hating-others, humor, hurting-others, issues, joyful-living, let-go, let-it-go, letting-go, life-coach, life-coaching, love-one-another, move-on, moving-on, obnoxious, over-thinking, paranoia, peace, relationships, rotted-corpse, siblings, staying-positive, stayingpositiveu-com

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#9

“The chains that keep you bound to the past are not the actions of another person. They are your own anger, stubbornness, lack of compassion, jealousy and blaming others for your choices. It is not other people that keep you trapped; it is the entitled role of victim that you enjoy wearing. There is a familiarness to pain that you enjoy because you get a payoff from it. When you figure out what that payoff is then you will finally be on the road to freedom.”
― Shannon L. Alder

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#10

“People that hold onto hate for so long do so because they want to avoid dealing with their pain. They falsely believe if they forgive they are letting their enemy believe they are a doormat. What they don’t understand is hatred can’t be isolated or turned off. It manifests in their health, choices and belief systems. Their values and religious beliefs make adjustments to justify their negative emotions. Not unlike malware infesting a hard drive, their spirit slowly becomes corrupted and they make choices that don’t make logical sense to others. Hatred left unaddressed will crash a person’s spirit. The only thing he or she can do is to reboot, by fixing him or herself, not others. This might require installing a firewall of boundaries or parental controls on their emotions. Regardless of the approach, we are all connected on this "network of life" and each of us is responsible for cleaning up our spiritual registry.”
― Shannon L. Alder

tags: adversity, anger-management, attitude, bad-attitude, blaming-others, blindsighted, brokenness, changing-perspective, character, choices, computers, denial, doormat, ego, emotions, false-confidence, false-ego, foolish, forgiveness, hard-hearted, hatred, history, internalizing, judgemental, lack-of-compassion, life, life-challenges, negative, pride, problems, reboot, relationships-101, sad, self-help, self-reflection, self-righteousness, spiritual-death, spiritual-health, stayingpositiveu-com, stubborn, superiority, tests, trials, unforgiving, unhappy, values

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#11

“Blame doesn't empower you. It keeps you stuck in a place you don't want to be because you don't want to make the temporary, but painful decision, to be responsible for the outcome of your own life's happiness.”
― Shannon L. Alder

tags: blaming-others, control, emotions, false-perception, fear, happiness, living-a-lie, overcoming, ownership, regret, relationships-101, self-awareness, self-improvement, self-protection, settling

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#12

“I was still searching for someone to blame for my suffering. I really wanted someone to transfer my hate to, so that I could stop hating myself.”
― Glenn Beck, The 7: Seven Wonders That Will Change Your Life

tags: blame, doubt, hate, shame

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#13

“My problem stemmed from not forgiving myself.”
― Shannon A. Thompson, Seconds Before Sunrise

tags: forgive, forgiven, forgiveness, forgiveness-and-love, forgiveness-quotes, forgiving, forgiving-people, forgiving-yourself, problems, teens-on-parents, young-love

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#14

“If people refuse to look at you in a new light and they can only see you for what you were, only see you for the mistakes you've made, if they don't realize that you are not your mistakes, then they have to go.”
― Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

tags: change, growth, inspirational, letting-go, life, mistakes

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#15

“Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.”
― Jodi Picoult, My Sister's Keeper

tags: disappointment, loneliness, loner, solitude

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#16

“Now something so sad has hold of us that the breath leaves and we can't even cry.”
― Charles Bukowski, You Get So Alone at Times That it Just Makes Sense

tags: grief, sadness

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#17

“the best part was
pulling down the
shades
stuffing the doorbell
with rags
putting the phone
in the
refrigerator
and going to bed
for 3 or 4
days.
and the next best
part
was
nobody ever
missed
me.”
― Charles Bukowski, You Get So Alone at Times That it Just Makes Sense

tags: bukowski, charles-bukowski, poetry, quote, quotes

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#18

“we are burning like a chicken wing left on the grill of an outdoor barbecue
we are unwanted and burning we are burning and unwanted
we are
an unwanted
burning
as we sizzle and fry
to the bone
the coals of Dante's 'Inferno' spit and sputter beneath
us
and
above the sky is an open hand
and
the words of wise men are useless
it's not a nice world, a nice world it's
not ...”
― Charles Bukowski, You Get So Alone at Times That it Just Makes Sense

tags: bukowski, dante, death, god, humanity, inferno, life, love, man, men, poem, poetry, sky, society, useless, wisdom, world

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