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  • #1
    bell hooks
    “Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner's love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother's love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
    bell hooks

  • #2
    Assunta Harris
    “Overcoming abuse doesn't just happen, It takes positive steps everyday. Let today be the day you start to move forward.”
    Assunta Harris, A Sheep Amongst Wolves

  • #3
    Assunta Harris
    “You're a survivor because every day you make a choice not to be governed by their harsh words or actions. No one has the right to take away your happiness”
    Assunta Harris, A Sheep Amongst Wolves

  • #4
    Richelle E. Goodrich
    “There are many who don't wish to sleep for fear of nightmares. Sadly, there are many who don't wish to wake for the same fear.”
    Richelle Goodrich, Dandelions: The Disappearance of Annabelle Fancher

  • #5
    Richelle E. Goodrich
    “There are far too many silent sufferers.  Not because they don't yearn to reach out, but because they've tried and found no one who cares.”
    Richelle E. Goodrich, Smile Anyway: Quotes, Verse, & Grumblings for Every Day of the Year

  • #6
    Robert Goolrick
    “I know that it's easier to look at death than it is to look at pain, because while death is irrevocable, and the grief will lessen in time, pain is too often merely relentless and irreversible.”
    Robert Goolrick, The End of the World as We Know It: Scenes from a Life

  • #7
    Laura   Davis
    “Abuse manipulates and twists a child’s natural sense of trust and love. Her innocent feelings are belittled or mocked and she learns to ignore her feelings. She can’t afford to feel the full range of feelings in her body while she’s being abused—pain, outrage, hate, vengeance, confusion, arousal. So she short-circuits them and goes numb. For many children, any expression of feelings, even a single tear, is cause for more severe abuse. Again, the only recourse is to shut down. Feelings go underground.”
    Laura Davis, Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child



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