Eiko Sánchez > Eiko's Quotes

“Just remember that it's not your responsibility to fix a broken man. It's not worth your time, your effort, your love or your tears. If he's not willing to fix himself for you, there's nothing left to do but walk away and move behind his selfish, immature, and ultimately abusive behavior. Not all men are broken, but you have to believe you deserve better. Expect better and you'll receive better, it's that simple.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“You taught me what it means to fight for what you love.
You showed me great endurance in a manner that was unusual to me.
You fought for my heart until all the fight in you was gone without neglecting your brain.
You displayed to me what unconditional love should look like, if I were to stare at it in a mirror.
You loved me even on the days I found it difficult to even love myself.
You scooped down to help me up at my lowest.
You chained your heart to mine and stayed by my side even when all the signs gave you red lights about continuing our relationship.
You remained loyal, even when I became disloyal, and fulfilled the belief that many men are dogs.
You hung on longer than I expected,
Loved me more than I could ever imagine.
Some may have called you foolish for staying, but you showed me an aspect of love I’ve only read about in 1 Corinthians 13.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Dear good guy I can hear your cries I can feel your pain I can smell your frustration I can see the confusion in your eyes Confused about how women see you In a land of women tired of being played They still take you as a joke and think you’re all games They play you like they were played They can’t see the seriousness in your eyes When you call her “Queen” and ask for her heart And you cry for commitment, they back out and shut down Treat you like the bad guys treated them It’s so ironic You hate seeing these ladies get their hearts stomped on Their minds toyed with It’s killing you because you’ve done it to women yourself you’ve seen other guys do it You want to save them from the destruction But like a child who refuses to obey their mother’s wisdom, until they are wise enough to understand through experience They won’t value you until they get burned playing with the fire of curiosity Some of them crave destruction They crave the fun that these fellas who will degrade them have to offer They are being guided by curiosity and their wisdom is foolishness Fight the urge to become like the men these ladies who lack understanding chase after Don’t let rejection consume your heart and cause you to crumble Being a promiscuous man who lacks self-respect and morals is overrated Find peace with being the underdog Your type is needed in this world, my good friend Hold on There are women out there who are in search for someone like you One of them will be the one who appreciates the detailed things about you the previous women called corny There are women out there who will value your honesty, your character, your loyalty Hold on, my friend Narrow is the right path You are on the right path, my friend Your time will come in due time You will not just be getting a girl, you will be getting a woman who will be willing to finish off this life’s journey with you You are not alone I am with you and I understand the hardships you face, the doubt, the anger I want you to know you are doing a great job at being you Do not give up Stand firm and continue to be different You will be an example to many although you are in the minority Corruption”
― Pierre Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“Feelings of a Pimp They think I was a player because I was devoted to the game They thought I worked hard on my offense to break down these women’s defenses just to score They think it’s the body count that made me manipulate them into my arms to get between their legs They think I’m satisfied with a different woman in my bed every night When during the day, even my bed can feel the loneliness They think I love the easy women They think it’s for the cool points that my heart grew cold They think they have me figured out Another dog chasing after every female dog in the streets They think I’m happy with all the texting buddies, but no wife But they don’t know They don’t know how tired I am of this, how tired I am of myself How tired I am of living like this How tired I am of these games, but that’s the only way I can score with a chick They don’t know how after sleeping with these ladies, I wish I had more chemistry with at least one of them to cuddle, to give goodnight kisses and wake up beside They don’t know how loneliness consumes me With a phone filled with women’s numbers, I still feel unwanted and unworthy They don’t know these easy women make it easy for me to feel confident about myself; although it’s the wrong type of confidence I feel validated by them, I feel accomplished, I feel loved although I’m having sex with them, not making love They don’t know how tired I am of chasing fool’s gold Chasing fast women who would sleep with me in a heartbeat Leaving me with the empty feeling I felt before I started the chase The player in me is played out. I just want love, but that’s the only thing I can’t seem to find So, I keep pimping in hope of finding love Her insecurities were beautiful They opened the door for me as an opportunist She was the perfect candidate Oh so sweet, but oh so hurt How smart would I be if I didn’t capitalize? Some fellas get women drunk and have their way with them I was doing nothing wrong but pretending to be prince charming, just to get the same results I became what they needed emotionally I was the shoulder to cry on, the ear to listen to, the one person who understood I was a smooth criminal manipulating the innocent Did not feel an ounce of guilt because I was weak myself I was insecure I couldn’t help preying on vulnerable women In their weakness I found strength I was a coward, a “wannabe” player I was playing the wrong games, winning the wrong prizes The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman’s vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak. Diary of a Weak Man”
― Pierre Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“A man is not supposed to be an animal. Strength doesn't lie and how little pain he shows, but in how he handles the pain he feels. Be a man. Be real with yourself. Be human.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“You are not a fool for being fooled by a fool.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her Vol. 2

“Be honest with him, tell him you don't know how to love yet, even when it's everything you want.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her Vol. 2

“The commitment issues in me live not because I am still finding enjoyment in messing around with other women. It’s because the fear of not being man enough reigns in me.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“Some men are afraid of committing because they see themselves in no shape to build a future with someone else. Some are insecure about where they are in life and how far they are from their goals. They don’t want to bring a struggle to the table. They want to be stable and comfortable in life first. They don’t want to feel as if they aren’t man enough. They want to be able to protect and provide without bringing the woman they love into failure with them. To the man stuck in that situation: She loves you, she wants you. The most valuable thing you can give a woman whose heart belongs to you is your time and affection. You are getting in your own way, not your financial status or failures.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“You my dear, knew your worth, and that made you worth so much more than you realized.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“This heart of yours is asking for time to be still, my dear. It's begging you to move on without moving into something new, to patiently be yours for a little while, to lay and cuddle a bit longer with the peace of your own presence”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty

“Why was I told in every situation to man up and not cry? I’d manned up all my life and now my strength to stay tough broke down I felt robbed of a remedy to my pain”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“How does someone find it easy to live life smiling after having hurt the soul of someone who only offered them love?”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Apologies That Never Came

“It is silly to convince her that she is a sinner for being able to love so devotedly. It may not be normal to you, but let it be to her.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her Vol. 2

“The truth is, no strong man takes advantage of a woman’s vulnerability. It is a trait of the weak.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“What I learned from my generation is to never love too hard. To never show anyone you can’t live without them. It’s always about who can survive without the other while attempting to commit to each other. It’s a very contradicting mindset.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Unspoken Feelings of a Gentleman

“Once upon a time,
persuasive words would give her goosebumps,
Sweet nothings would satisfy her cravings,
the key to her heart belonged to thieves.
But now
She has grown to listen with her eyes,
to only trust actions,
to study behaviors
and let time be the inspector to see what it will reveal”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, Her

“The greatest gift any man will try to take from you is your time...”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved

“Your courage drove the coward in me insane.”
― Pierre Alex Jeanty, To the Women I Once Loved