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  • #1
    Alberto Caeiro
    “Live, you say, in the present;
    Live only in the present.

    But I don’t want the present, I want reality;
    I want things that exist, not time that measures them.

    What is the present?
    It’s something relative to the past and the future.
    It’s a thing that exists in virtue of other things existing.
    I only want reality, things without the present.

    I don’t want to include time in my scheme.
    I don’t want to think about things as present; I want to think of them as things.
    I don’t want to separate them from themselves, treating them as present.

    I shouldn’t even treat them as real.
    I should treat them as nothing.

    I should see them, only see them;
    See them till I can’t think about them.

    See them without time, without space,
    To see, dispensing with everything but what you see.
    And this is the science of seeing, which isn’t a science.”
    Alberto Caeiro, The Collected Poems of Alberto Caeiro

  • #2
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “The higher we soar the smaller we appear to those who cannot fly.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #3
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “I am a forest, and a night of dark trees: but he who is not afraid of my darkness, will find banks full of roses under my cypresses.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #4
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “Become who you are!”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spake Zarathustra: A Book for All and None

  • #5
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “One repays a teacher badly if one always remains nothing but a pupil.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #6
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “There is more wisdom in your body than in your deepest philosophy.”
    Nietzsche, Friedrich, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #7
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “But the worst enemy you can meet will always be yourself; you lie in wait for yourself in caverns and forests. Lonely one, you are going the way to yourself! And your way goes past yourself, and past your seven devils! You will be a heretic to yourself and witch and soothsayer and fool and doubter and unholy one and villain. You must be ready to burn yourself in your own flame: how could you become new, if you had not first become ashes?”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #8
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “But it is the same with man as with the tree. The more he seeks to rise into the height and light, the more vigorously do his roots struggle earthword, downword, into the dark, the deep - into evil.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #9
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “One must be a sea, to receive a polluted stream without becoming impure.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #10
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “No shepherd and one herd! Everybody wants the same, everybody is the same: whoever feels different goes voluntarily into a madhouse.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche, Thus Spoke Zarathustra

  • #11
    Mooji
    “Step into the fire of self-discovery. This fire will not burn you, it will only burn what you are not.”
    Mooji

  • #12
    Mooji
    “Dying to your own attachments is a beautiful death.
    Because this death release you into real life.
    You have to die as a seed to live as a tree.”
    Mooji

  • #13
    Mooji
    “Whatever comes, don’t push it away. When it goes, do not grieve.”
    Mooji

  • #14
    Marcus Aurelius
    “If someone can prove me wrong and show me my mistake in any thought or action, I shall gladly change. I seek the truth, which never harmed anyone: the harm is to persist in one's own self-deception and ignorance.”
    Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

  • #15
    Seneca
    “I have learned to be a friend to myself Great improvement this indeed Such a one can never be said to be alone for know that he who is a friend to himself is a friend to all mankind”
    Lucius Annaeus Seneca, Letters from a Stoic

  • #16
    Jack Kornfield
    “In the end
    these things matter most:
    How well did you love?
    How fully did you live?
    How deeply did you let go?”
    Jack Kornfield, Buddha's Little Instruction Book

  • #17
    Jack Kornfield
    “If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.”
    Jack Kornfield, Buddha's Little Instruction Book

  • #18
    Jack Kornfield
    “The trouble is, you think you have time.”
    Jack Kornfield, Buddha's Little Instruction Book

  • #19
    Jack Kornfield
    “You hold in your hand an invitation: to remember the transforming power of forgiveness and loving kindness. To remember that no matter where you are and what you face, within your heart peace is possible.”
    Jack Kornfield

  • #20
    Peter F. Drucker
    “By themselves, character and integrity do not accomplish anything. But their absence faults everything else. Here, therefore, is the one area where weakness is a disqualification by itself rather than a limitation on performance capacity and strength.”
    Peter F. Drucker, The Effective Executive

  • #21
    Lawrence Wallace
    “Catastrophizing. Predicting extremely negative future outcomes, such as “If I don’t do well on this paper, I will flunk out of college and never have a good job.”
      All-or-nothing. Viewing things as all-good or all-bad, black or white, as in “If my new colleagues don’t like me, they must hate me.” Personalization. Thinking that negative actions or words of others are related to you, or assuming that you are the cause of a negative event when you actually had no connection with it. Overgeneralizations. Seeing one negative situation as representative of all similar events. Labeling. Attaching negative labels to ourselves or others. Rather than focusing on a particular thing that you didn’t like and want to change, you might label yourself a loser or a failure. Magnification/minimization. Emphasizing bad things and deemphasizing good in a situation, such as making a big deal about making a mistake, and ignoring achievements. Emotional reasoning. Letting your feelings about something guide your conclusions about how things really are, as in “I feel hopeless, so my situation really must be hopeless.” Discounting positives. Disqualifying positive experiences as evidence that your negative beliefs are false—for example, by saying that you got lucky, something good happened accidentally, or someone was lying when giving you a compliment. Negativity bias. Seeing only the bad aspects of a situation and dwelling on them, in the process viewing the situation as completely bad even though there may have been positives. Should/must statements. Setting up expectations for yourself based on what you think you “should” do. These usually come from perceptions of what others think, and may be totally unrealistic. You might feel guilty for failing or not wanting these standards and feel frustration and resentment. Buddhism sets this in context. When the word “should” is used, it leaves no leeway for flexibility of self-acceptance. It is fine to have wise, loving, self-identified guidelines for behavior, but remember that the same response or action to all situations is neither productive nor ideal. One size never fits all.  Jumping to conclusions. Making negative predictions about the outcome of a situation without definite facts or evidence. This includes predicting a bad future event and acting as if it were already fact, or concluding that others reacted negatively to you without asking them. ​Dysfunctional automatic thoughts like these are common. If you think that they are causing suffering in your life, make sure you address them as a part of your CBT focus.”
    Lawrence Wallace, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: 7 Ways to Freedom from Anxiety, Depression, and Intrusive Thoughts

  • #22
    Lawrence Wallace
    “What was I doing right before I felt like that? Where was I when I felt like that? Are there places where I never have those feelings? How was I acting just beforehand? What was I thinking about before those feelings started? Are there certain beliefs I hold that seem to increase those feelings? Whom was I with when I felt like that? Do I feel like that with everyone? ​For example, some people may feel sad and hopeless in relation to a fear that they will be alone their whole lives. Focusing on that situation, you could notice the fact that this feeling might arise more often when home alone late at night, but rarely feel this way when spending time with friends. You might realize that you think things like “I will never find a girlfriend/boyfriend” based on negative beliefs about your desirability as a partner.”
    Lawrence Wallace, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: 7 Ways to Freedom from Anxiety, Depression, and Intrusive Thoughts

  • #23
    Lawrence Wallace
    “Happiness is not dependent on the good or bad opinion of others, but instead upon your actions.   It”
    Lawrence Wallace, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: 7 Ways to Freedom from Anxiety, Depression, and Intrusive Thoughts

  • #24
    Peter F. Drucker
    “Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.”
    Peter Drucker, Essential Drucker

  • #25
    Peter F. Drucker
    “Knowledge has to be improved, challenged, and increased constantly, or it vanishes.”
    Peter Drucker

  • #26
    Peter F. Drucker
    “The best way to predict your future is to create it”
    Peter Drucker

  • #27
    Peter F. Drucker
    “If you want something new, you have to stop doing something old”
    Peter Drucker

  • #28
    Peter F. Drucker
    “The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said.”
    Peter F. Drucker

  • #29
    Peter F. Drucker
    “Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.”
    Peter F. Drucker

  • #30
    Peter F. Drucker
    “No one learns as much about a subject as one who is forced to teach it.”
    Peter Drucker



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