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  • #1
    Anton Chekhov
    “If ever my life can be of any use to you, come and claim it.”
    Anton Chekhov

  • #2
    Laura Mulvey
    “In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and passive/female. The determining male gaze projects its phantasy on to the female form which is styled accordingly. In their traditional exhibitionist role women are simultaneously looked at and displayed, with their appearance coded for strong visual and erotic impact so that they can be said to connote to-be-looked-at-ness.”
    Laura Mulvey, Visual And Other Pleasures

  • #3
    Laura Mulvey
    “Woman, then, stands in patriarchal culture as a signifier for the male other, bound by a symbolic order in which man can live out his fantasies and obsessions through linguistic command by imposing them on the silent image of a woman still tied to her place as the bearer of meaning, not maker of meaning.”
    Laura Mulvey, Visual And Other Pleasures

  • #4
    John Berger
    “A woman must continually watch herself. She is almost continually accompanied by her own image of herself. Whilst she is walking across a room or whilst she is weeping at the death of her father, she can scarcely avoid envisaging herself walking or weeping. From earliest childhood she has been taught and persuaded to survey herself continually. And so she comes to consider the surveyor and the surveyed within her as the two constituent yet always distinct elements of her identity as a woman. She has to survey everything she is and everything she does because how she appears to men, is of crucial importance for what is normally thought of as the success of her life. Her own sense of being in herself is supplanted by a sense of being appreciated as herself by another....

    One might simplify this by saying: men act and women appear. Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. This determines not only most relations between men and women but also the relation of women to themselves. The surveyor of woman in herself is male: the surveyed female. Thus she turns herself into an object -- and most particularly an object of vision: a sight.”
    John Berger, Ways of Seeing

  • #5
    bell hooks
    “But many of us seek community solely to escape the fear of being alone. Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving. When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”
    Bell Hooks, All About Love: New Visions

  • #6
    bell hooks
    “Individuals who want to believe that there is no fulfillment in love, that true love does not exist, cling to these assumptions because this despair is actually easier to face than the reality that love is a real fact of life but is absent from their lives.”
    bell hooks, All About Love: New Visions
    tags: love

  • #7
    Oscar Wilde
    “You can never be overdressed or overeducated.”
    Oscar Wilde

  • #8
    Oscar Wilde
    “You will always be fond of me. I represent to you all the sins you never had the courage to commit.”
    Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

  • #9
    Oscar Wilde
    “Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.”
    Oscar Wilde

  • #10
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “Whoever fights monsters should see to it that in the process he does not become a monster. And if you gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will gaze back into you.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche

  • #11
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “The snake which cannot cast its skin has to die. As well the minds which are prevented from changing their opinions; they cease to be mind.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche

  • #12
    Friedrich Nietzsche
    “The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.”
    Friedrich Nietzsche

  • #13
    Anthony de Mello
    “As the Arabs say, "The nature of rain is the same, but it makes thorns grow in the marshes and flowers in the gardens.”
    Anthony de Mello, Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality

  • #14
    Anthony de Mello
    “We see people and things not as they are, but as we are.”
    Anthony de Mello, Awareness: The Perils and Opportunities of Reality

  • #15
    Anthony de Mello
    “Put this program into action, a thousand times: (a) identify the negative feelings in you; (b) understand that they are in you, not in the world, not in external reality; (c) do not see them as an essential part of “I”; these things come and go; (d) understand that when you change, everything changes.”
    Anthony de Mello, Awareness

  • #16
    Anthony de Mello
    “What you are aware of you are in control of; what you are not aware of is in control of you. You are always a slave to what you’re not aware of. When you’re aware of it, you’re free from it. It’s there, but you’re not affected by it. You’re not controlled by it; you’re not enslaved by it. That’s the difference.”
    Anthony de Mello, Awareness

  • #17
    Oscar Wilde
    “Words! Mere words! How terrible they were! How clear, and vivid, and cruel! One could not escape from them. And yet what a subtle magic there was in them! They seemed to be able to give a plastic form to formless things, and to have a music of their own as sweet as that of viol or of lute. Mere words! Was there anything so real as words?”
    Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

  • #18
    Edward Gorey
    “A is for Amy who fell down the stairs.
    B is for Basil assaulted by bears.
    C is for Clara who wasted away.
    D is for Desmond thrown out of a sleigh.
    E is for Ernest who choked on a peach.
    F is for Fanny sucked dry by a leech.

    G is for George smothered under a rug.
    H is for Hector done in by a thug.
    I is for Ida who drowned in a lake.
    J is for James who took lye by mistake.
    K is for Kate who was struck with an axe.
    L is for Leo who choked on some tacks.

    M is for Maud who was swept out to sea.
    N is for Neville who died of ennui.
    O is for Olive run through with an awl.
    P is for Prue trampled flat in a brawl.
    Q is for Quentin who sank on a mire.
    R is for Rhoda consumed by a fire.

    S is for Susan who perished of fits.
    T is for Titus who flew into bits.
    U is for Una who slipped down a drain.
    V is for Victor squashed under a train.
    W is for Winnie embedded in ice.
    X is for Xerxes devoured by mice.

    Y is for Yorick whose head was bashed in.
    Z is for Zillah who drank too much gin.”
    Edward Gorey

  • #19
    Edward Gorey
    “There was a young lady named Mae
    Who smoked without stopping all day;
    As pack followed pack,
    Her lungs first turned black,
    And eventually rotted away.”
    Edward Gorey, Floating Worlds: The Letters of Edward Gorey & Peter F. Neumeyer

  • #20
    Edward Gorey
    “Apropos of nothing at all except that it has been on my mind and I think I had better say it because it accounts for a good deal of my behaviour. There is a strong streak in me that wishes not to exist and really does not believe that I do, so that I tend to become unnerved when these curious ideas are proved to be not really true because someone (in this case you) has responded to something I have said or done just as if I were an actual person the same as you (especially) or anyone else. Some of it is, I guess, just the worst sorts of arrogance and irresponsibility , but not all of it, as I really don't think I exist a lot of the time, so I'm asking you to bear with it, me, whatever, for the sake of what?—friendship I suppose, which I want to be capable of, which is obviously not enough. More brains might help, but enough unseemly remarks for eight o'clock in the morning and the shivering in pyjama bottoms syndrome.”
    Edward Gorey, Floating Worlds: The Letters of Edward Gorey & Peter F. Neumeyer

  • #21
    Edward Gorey
    “Neither mine nor other people's prospects seem particularly pleasing just at the moment, and I have fantasies of going to Iceland, never to return. As it is, I tell myself not to remember the past, not to hope or fear for the future, and not to think in the present, a comprehensive program that will undoubtedly have very little success.”
    Edward Gorey, Floating Worlds: The Letters of Edward Gorey & Peter F. Neumeyer

  • #22
    Leo Tolstoy
    “I think... if it is true that
    there are as many minds as there
    are heads, then there are as many
    kinds of love as there are hearts.”
    Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

  • #23
    Leo Tolstoy
    “He stepped down, trying not to look long at her, as if she were the sun, yet he saw her, like the sun, even without looking.”
    Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

  • #24
    Leo Tolstoy
    “Love. The reason I dislike that word is that it means too much for me, far more than you can understand."

    - Anna Karenina {Anna Karenina}”
    Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina

  • #25
    Albert Camus
    “In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.”
    Albert Camus

  • #26
    Albert Camus
    “Man is the only creature who refuses to be what he is.”
    Albert Camus

  • #27
    Albert Camus
    “Should I kill myself, or have a cup of coffee?”
    Albert Camus

  • #28
    Albert Camus
    “But in the end one needs more courage to live than to kill himself.”
    Albert Camus

  • #29
    Albert Camus
    “The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.”
    Albert Camus

  • #30
    Albert Camus
    “I may not have been sure about what really did interest me, but I was absolutely sure about what didn't.”
    Albert Camus, The Stranger



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