Totally Quotes

“That's totally their interpreter," a girl with a lip ring informs us. "Even though they totally record their music in English, they totally speak in Inuktitut. Totally.”
― Libba Bray, Going Bovine

“God must be totally amazed by men’s initiatives, creating too many jobs out of a given hole.”
― M.F. Moonzajer

“We should totally rely on God, then our success will always be stable and nothing would be able to shake it”
― Sunday Adelaja

“The Christians and the world have totally different goals.”
― Sunday Adelaja

“God can only work through those who have totally identified themselves with His will and purpose”
― Sunday Adelaja

“An opportunity leading to your blessing can totally change your life”
― Sunday Adelaja

“It is easy to love God when you do not even have a cent in your pocket and you are totally dependent on Him”
― Sunday Adelaja

“The key for having success is totally rejecting thoughts that try to sow doubts into your conscience”
― Sunday Adelaja

“God put a certain potential into us that is totally sufficient to carry out the assigned task”
― Sunday Adelaja

“There is no half way for me. I love you totally, madly, and passionately. I love you till I die!”
― Avijeet Das

“Did she just use totally as a modifier? Horrid locution! How easy it is to get sucked down the verbal drain into the bottomless pit of word fashions.”
― Margaret Atwood, Old Babes in the Wood: Stories

“...if you have loved a person really, when he is gone he is gone; you will not grieve much. If you have not loved the person deeply, then you will grieve very much.

Try to understand this.

Your father dies, or your mother dies. If you have loved him totally while he was alive, you will be able to say goodbye to him without any grief -- because you loved him. That experience of love was total and fulfilling; nothing is left undone; nothing is hanging over your head. Whatsoever was possible has happened; now you can accept it. What more was possible? Even if he had been alive, what more would have been possible? The experience is complete.

Whenever an experience is complete, you are ready to say goodbye very easily. But if you have not loved your father as you always wanted to, you have not been respectful towards him as you always wanted to, you will feel guilty. Now the father is gone; now there is no way to fulfill your desire -- now there is no way to show your respect, your love. Now there is no way, you will feel yourself hanging in the middle, in mid-air, in a limbo. You will not be at ease; you cannot say goodbye. You will cry and weep and you will be broken, and you will say that you are broken because your father is dead, but the real thing is something else.

You are broken because now the possibility to love him, to respect him, is gone. Now there is no possibility -- the doors are closed and you have missed an opportunity. The son will cry more if he has not really loved his father. If he has loved his father he will be able to accept the fact -- love is very accepting and very understanding.

Once an experience is complete, you can get out of it very easily -- you can just slip out of it as the snake slips out of his old skin. If you love a woman and you have been constantly quarrelling with her, and it never became a deep satisfaction, and she dies...now she will haunt you, her ghost will haunt you for your whole life. You could not do something that was possible, but now it is no longer possible. Now something incomplete will always be there in the heart, hurting; it will become a wound.

This is the understanding of all the sages, that while you are loving a person, if you love him totally there is going to be no misery. If you love him totally, if you enjoy and delight in him totally, and the person is gone -- of course, one feels a little sad but it is not grief; one misses a little but one is capable of remaining centered, one is not distracted.

If you are in love, love totally, so nothing remains hanging. Otherwise, that hanging, incomplete experience, that unlived experience, will haunt you. These unlived experiences go on piling up and they become heavy burdens.”
― Osho