Underachieving Children Quotes

“It's ONLY the things you are CONSISTENT about that SHAPES a child And it's those things that your child is CONSISTENT at that shows you Who your child is. If you like tell the child once in a while NOT to take what doesn't belong to him, Or get him to do house chores once in a while Or say you love him only ...once in a while, Frown all of the time and smile just once in a while. The child picks what you do all of the time or many of the time! If your child messes up too much, check that one NASTY thing he does more than others and START from there. EMPHASIS is a TECHNIQUE in parenting. Lazy, unorganized parents don't raise well behaved children. And it takes more than love to PARENT a child.”
― Asuni LadyZeal

“Teach your children to Smile when doing Tasks they consider hard. Many times, children would cry when they are asked to do a task they feel is hard. They would frown, sulk, begin to feign hunger or wee-wee. If you have been wondering what a FIXED MINDSET looks like, That's a FIXED MINDSET. Reversing a fixed mindset is about CHANGING EMOTIONS. It is changing a child's state of mind CONCERNING the SPECIFIC task to be learnt. It is changing his state DURING learning. It is changing the child's Perspective ABOUT LEARNING generally. Teach them to JUST SMILE! or even SING while they learn or practice "HARD" tasks. Keep them SMILING even when the task is so hard they want to CRY. Explain that a PERSON cannot excel at a thing he doesn't like. Explain that in life those who succeed AS A RULE, first had to be HAPPY and GRATEFUL for the opportunity to TRY. TEACH them that sadness and anger at the things they don't know makes what they don't know HARDER.”
― Asuni LadyZeal

“Underachievement is neither a disease nor a disability. It is a description of the gap between what your child can do and what he actually does. The idea is to close that gap.”
― Asuni LadyZeal