Your Past Circumstances Quotes

“Having a positive past depends very little on what events actually occurred.
What happened to you doesn’t matter as much as what story you decide to tell yourself about what happened.
What happened to you doesn’t matter as much as what emotions you feel about what happened.

We get to choose what story we attach.
Grief expert and psychiatrist Gordon Livingston, M.D., said, “The stories of our lives, far from being fixed narratives, are under constant revision.

Psychologically, the past, present, and future exist together here and now. Our present state is largely what determines those critical past narratives.

With deliberate practice, you can develop the skill of positively reframing any past experience into a gain. With practice, you can get better and quicker at converting pain into growth and purpose. This is what psychologists call post-traumatic growth.

Can you feel genuinely glad you went through your hardest moments?
Without those, you wouldn’t know what you now know or be who you are.”
― Benjamin P. Hardy, Be Your Future Self Now: The Science of Intentional Transformation