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Gender Queer: A Memoir Gender Queer: A Memoir (Paperback)
by (shelved 33 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.27 — 82,541 ratings — published 2019
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It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity It Feels Good to Be Yourself: A Book About Gender Identity (Hardcover)
by (shelved 31 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.25 — 1,892 ratings — published 2019
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Middlesex Middlesex (Paperback)
by (shelved 26 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.04 — 675,032 ratings — published 2002
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Julián Is a Mermaid Julián Is a Mermaid (Hardcover)
by (shelved 24 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.50 — 10,931 ratings — published 2018
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Melissa Melissa (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 22 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.09 — 48,418 ratings — published 2015
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When Aidan Became A Brother When Aidan Became A Brother (Hardcover)
by (shelved 20 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.51 — 2,415 ratings — published 2019
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Jacob's New Dress Jacob's New Dress (Hardcover)
by (shelved 18 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.20 — 1,550 ratings — published 2014
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I Am Jazz I Am Jazz (Hardcover)
by (shelved 17 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.12 — 3,430 ratings — published 2014
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Symptoms of Being Human Symptoms of Being Human (Hardcover)
by (shelved 15 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.09 — 19,189 ratings — published 2016
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What Riley Wore What Riley Wore (Hardcover)
by (shelved 14 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.21 — 754 ratings — published 2019
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Introducing Teddy: A Gentle Story About Gender and Friendship Introducing Teddy: A Gentle Story About Gender and Friendship (Hardcover)
by (shelved 14 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.14 — 1,240 ratings — published 2016
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What Are Your Words?: A Book About Pronouns What Are Your Words?: A Book About Pronouns (Hardcover)
by (shelved 12 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.13 — 799 ratings — published 2021
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Felix Ever After Felix Ever After (Hardcover)
by (shelved 12 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.20 — 68,051 ratings — published 2020
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Jack (Not Jackie) Jack (Not Jackie)
by (shelved 11 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.95 — 781 ratings — published 2018
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If I Was Your Girl If I Was Your Girl (Hardcover)
by (shelved 11 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.97 — 42,405 ratings — published 2016
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None of the Above None of the Above (Hardcover)
by (shelved 11 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.84 — 14,229 ratings — published 2015
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Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress Morris Micklewhite and the Tangerine Dress (Hardcover)
by (shelved 11 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.15 — 2,029 ratings — published 2014
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Detransition, Baby Detransition, Baby (Hardcover)
by (shelved 10 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.91 — 96,946 ratings — published 2021
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The Prince and the Dressmaker The Prince and the Dressmaker (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.32 — 125,942 ratings — published 2018
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Tomboy: A Graphic Memoir Tomboy: A Graphic Memoir (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.90 — 13,655 ratings — published 2014
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My Princess Boy My Princess Boy (Paperback)
by (shelved 10 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.83 — 1,471 ratings — published 2009
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Pageboy Pageboy (Unknown Binding)
by (shelved 9 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.72 — 79,837 ratings — published 2023
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Ho'onani: Hula Warrior Ho'onani: Hula Warrior (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.27 — 984 ratings — published 2019
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Sparkle Boy Sparkle Boy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.10 — 990 ratings — published 2017
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Who Are You?: The Kid's Guide to Gender Identity Who Are You?: The Kid's Guide to Gender Identity (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.06 — 453 ratings — published 2016
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The Art of Being Normal The Art of Being Normal (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.89 — 20,636 ratings — published 2015
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My Rainbow My Rainbow (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.25 — 1,021 ratings — published 2020
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My Maddy My Maddy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.24 — 666 ratings — published 2020
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This Is How It Always Is This Is How It Always Is (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.28 — 222,221 ratings — published 2017
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I Wish You All the Best (I Wish You All the Best, #1) I Wish You All the Best (I Wish You All the Best, #1)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.14 — 56,322 ratings — published 2019
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The 57 Bus The 57 Bus (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.08 — 46,019 ratings — published 2017
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The Pants Project The Pants Project (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.08 — 2,963 ratings — published 2017
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Stone Butch Blues Stone Butch Blues (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.56 — 40,296 ratings — published 1993
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Not He or She, I'm Me Not He or She, I'm Me (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.83 — 348 ratings — published
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Being You: A First Conversation About Gender Being You: A First Conversation About Gender (Board Book)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.10 — 451 ratings — published 2021
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Fred Gets Dressed Fred Gets Dressed (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.15 — 1,415 ratings — published
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My Shadow is Pink (My Shadow, #1) My Shadow is Pink (My Shadow, #1)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.59 — 1,958 ratings — published 2020
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Julián at the Wedding (Julián, #2) Julián at the Wedding (Julián, #2)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.24 — 2,137 ratings — published 2020
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Beyond the Gender Binary Beyond the Gender Binary (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.47 — 13,423 ratings — published 2020
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Seeing Gender: An Illustrated Guide to Identity and Expression Seeing Gender: An Illustrated Guide to Identity and Expression (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.29 — 1,031 ratings — published 2019
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Jacob's Room to Choose (Jacob Stories) Jacob's Room to Choose (Jacob Stories)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.00 — 334 ratings — published 2019
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Ogilvy Ogilvy (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.20 — 715 ratings — published 2019
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Super Late Bloomer: My Early Days in Transition (Super Late Bloomer, #1) Super Late Bloomer: My Early Days in Transition (Super Late Bloomer, #1)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.26 — 2,179 ratings — published 2018
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The Left Hand of Darkness The Left Hand of Darkness (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.09 — 241,225 ratings — published 1969
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Annabel Annabel (Hardcover)
by (shelved 7 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.84 — 12,110 ratings — published 2010
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Born Ready: The True Story of a Boy Named Penelope Born Ready: The True Story of a Boy Named Penelope (Library Binding)
by (shelved 6 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.18 — 488 ratings — published 2021
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Call Me Max Call Me Max (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.33 — 468 ratings — published 2019
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Except When They Don't Except When They Don't (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 3.99 — 498 ratings — published 2019
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Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story (Hardcover)
by (shelved 6 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.06 — 7,186 ratings — published 2019
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The Witch Boy (The Witch Boy, #1) The Witch Boy (The Witch Boy, #1)
by (shelved 6 times as gender-identity)
avg rating 4.20 — 33,814 ratings — published 2017
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Virginia Woolf
“... it is fatal for anyone who writes to think of their sex. It is fatal to be a man or woman pure and simple; one must be woman-manly or man-womanly. It is fatal for a woman to lay the least stress on any grievance; to plead even with justice any cause; in any way to speak consciously as a woman. And fatal is no figure of speech; for anything written with that conscious bias is doomed to death. It ceases to be fertilized. Brilliant and effective, powerful and masterly, as it may appear for a day or two, it must wither at nightfall; it cannot grow in the minds of others. Some collaboration has to take place in the mind between the woman and the man before the art of creation can be accomplished. Some marriage of opposites has to be consummated. The whole of the mind must lie wide open if we are to get the sense that the writer is communicating his experience with perfect fullness.”
― Virginia Woolf, A Room of One’s Own

Andrew Solomon
“John [the father] kept saying, "You have a penis. That means you’re a boy." One day, Shannon noticed that her son had been in the bathroom an awfully long time and pushed the door open. "He had a pair of my best, sharpest sewing scissors poised, ready to cut. Penis in the scissors. I said, 'What are you doing?' He said, 'This doesn’t belong here. So I’m going to cut it off.' I said, 'You can’t do that.' He said, 'Why not?' I said, 'Because if you ever want to have girl parts, they need that to make them.' I pulled that one right out of my ass. He handed me the scissors and said, 'Okay.”
― Andrew Solomon, Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity

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