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I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame I Thought It Was Just Me: Women Reclaiming Power and Courage in a Culture of Shame (Hardcover)
by (shelved 34 times as shame)
avg rating 4.19 — 27,124 ratings — published 2007
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Healing the Shame that Binds You Healing the Shame that Binds You (Paperback)
by (shelved 32 times as shame)
avg rating 4.09 — 12,467 ratings — published 1988
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The Gifts of Imperfection The Gifts of Imperfection (Paperback)
by (shelved 28 times as shame)
avg rating 4.24 — 229,543 ratings — published 2010
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Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead (Hardcover)
by (shelved 26 times as shame)
avg rating 4.29 — 248,848 ratings — published 2012
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Understanding and Treating Chronic Shame: A Relational/Neurobiological Approach Understanding and Treating Chronic Shame: A Relational/Neurobiological Approach (Paperback)
by (shelved 21 times as shame)
avg rating 4.54 — 526 ratings — published 2015
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So You've Been Publicly Shamed So You've Been Publicly Shamed (Hardcover)
by (shelved 18 times as shame)
avg rating 3.93 — 66,618 ratings — published 2015
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Shame: Free Yourself, Find Joy, and Build True Self-Esteem Shame: Free Yourself, Find Joy, and Build True Self-Esteem (Hardcover)
by (shelved 13 times as shame)
avg rating 3.88 — 475 ratings — published
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The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves (Hardcover)
by (shelved 13 times as shame)
avg rating 4.32 — 4,533 ratings — published 2015
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Shame: The Power of Caring Shame: The Power of Caring (Paperback)
by (shelved 11 times as shame)
avg rating 4.23 — 98 ratings — published 1983
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It Wasn't Your Fault: Freeing Yourself from the Shame of Childhood Abuse with the Power of Self-Compassion It Wasn't Your Fault: Freeing Yourself from the Shame of Childhood Abuse with the Power of Self-Compassion (Paperback)
by (shelved 9 times as shame)
avg rating 4.24 — 581 ratings — published 2015
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Braving the Wilderness Braving the Wilderness (Hardcover)
by (shelved 9 times as shame)
avg rating 4.12 — 122,828 ratings — published 2017
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Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution (Hardcover)
by (shelved 8 times as shame)
avg rating 4.25 — 90,142 ratings — published 2015
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You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience (Audio CD)
by (shelved 7 times as shame)
avg rating 4.51 — 7,646 ratings — published 2021
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Men, Women, and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough Men, Women, and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough (Audio CD)
by (shelved 7 times as shame)
avg rating 4.47 — 3,851 ratings — published 2012
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The Psychology of Shame: Theory and Treatment of Shame-Based Syndromes The Psychology of Shame: Theory and Treatment of Shame-Based Syndromes (Paperback)
by (shelved 7 times as shame)
avg rating 4.05 — 58 ratings — published 1989
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Shame and Guilt (Emotions and Social Behavior) Shame and Guilt (Emotions and Social Behavior)
by (shelved 7 times as shame)
avg rating 3.95 — 57 ratings — published 2002
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Giovanni’s Room Giovanni’s Room (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as shame)
avg rating 4.34 — 292,216 ratings — published 1956
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Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of the Self Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of the Self (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as shame)
avg rating 3.89 — 104 ratings — published 1992
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The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connections and Courage The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connections and Courage (Audible Audio)
by (shelved 6 times as shame)
avg rating 4.60 — 31,124 ratings — published 2013
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Women & Shame: Reaching Out, Speaking Truths And Building Connection Women & Shame: Reaching Out, Speaking Truths And Building Connection (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as shame)
avg rating 4.05 — 187 ratings — published 2004
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Disgrace Disgrace (Paperback)
by (shelved 6 times as shame)
avg rating 3.86 — 121,074 ratings — published 1999
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Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself (Hardcover)
by (shelved 5 times as shame)
avg rating 4.13 — 27,627 ratings — published 2011
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Eclipse (The Twilight Saga, #3) Eclipse (The Twilight Saga, #3)
by (shelved 5 times as shame)
avg rating 3.75 — 2,033,408 ratings — published 2007
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Twilight (The Twilight Saga, #1) Twilight (The Twilight Saga, #1)
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avg rating 3.68 — 7,484,620 ratings — published 2005
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Unlearning Shame: How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power Unlearning Shame: How We Can Reject Self-Blame Culture and Reclaim Our Power (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 4.20 — 1,319 ratings — published
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What Happened To You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing What Happened To You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 4.40 — 114,919 ratings — published 2021
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Unshame: Healing Trauma-Based Shame Through Psychotherapy Unshame: Healing Trauma-Based Shame Through Psychotherapy (Kindle Edition)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 4.61 — 484 ratings — published 2019
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Commute: An Illustrated Memoir of Female Shame Commute: An Illustrated Memoir of Female Shame (Hardcover)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 3.72 — 2,518 ratings — published 2019
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Shame Shame (Paperback)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 3.87 — 13,317 ratings — published 1983
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Fear of the Abyss: Healing the Wounds of Shame & Perfectionism Fear of the Abyss: Healing the Wounds of Shame & Perfectionism (Nook)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 4.37 — 67 ratings — published 2011
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Breaking Dawn (The Twilight Saga, #4) Breaking Dawn (The Twilight Saga, #4)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 3.76 — 1,910,849 ratings — published 2008
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New Moon (The Twilight Saga, #2) New Moon (The Twilight Saga, #2)
by (shelved 4 times as shame)
avg rating 3.62 — 2,173,908 ratings — published 2006
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I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn't) I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn't)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.16 — 1,530 ratings — published
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Haunting Adeline (Cat and Mouse, #1) Haunting Adeline (Cat and Mouse, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.94 — 962,531 ratings — published 2021
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Unhinged Unhinged (Kindle Edition)
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avg rating 3.00 — 29,476 ratings — published 2023
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The Sacrifice (L.O.R.D.S., #3) The Sacrifice (L.O.R.D.S., #3)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.31 — 152,532 ratings — published 2023
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The Ritual (L.O.R.D.S., #1) The Ritual (L.O.R.D.S., #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.05 — 384,256 ratings — published 2021
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Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires Tell Me What You Want: A Therapist and Her Clients Explore Our 12 Deepest Desires (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.91 — 1,038 ratings — published 2022
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The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.33 — 305,878 ratings — published 2014
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Satan's Affair (Cat and Mouse, #0.5) Satan's Affair (Cat and Mouse, #0.5)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.71 — 165,227 ratings — published 2021
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The Dragon's Bride (A Deal With a Demon, #1) The Dragon's Bride (A Deal With a Demon, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.62 — 51,341 ratings — published 2022
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The Shame Machine: Who Profits in the New Age of Humiliation The Shame Machine: Who Profits in the New Age of Humiliation (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.41 — 1,364 ratings — published 2022
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Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.58 — 14,612 ratings — published 2021
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The Voice of Shame: Silence and Connection in Psychotherapy (Gestalt Institute of Cleveland Book Series) The Voice of Shame: Silence and Connection in Psychotherapy (Gestalt Institute of Cleveland Book Series)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.39 — 23 ratings — published 1996
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Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience (Hardcover)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 4.32 — 101,847 ratings — published 2021
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Twisted Love (Twisted, #1) Twisted Love (Twisted, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.70 — 1,764,983 ratings — published 2021
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Morning Glory Milking Farm (Cambric Creek, #1) Morning Glory Milking Farm (Cambric Creek, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.56 — 80,071 ratings — published 2021
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The Fine Print (Dreamland Billionaires, #1) The Fine Print (Dreamland Billionaires, #1)
by (shelved 3 times as shame)
avg rating 3.80 — 687,854 ratings — published 2021
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Charles Dickens
“We need never be ashamed of our tears.”
Charles Dickens, Great Expectations

Laura   Davis
“Abuse manipulates and twists a child’s natural sense of trust and love. Her innocent feelings are belittled or mocked and she learns to ignore her feelings. She can’t afford to feel the full range of feelings in her body while she’s being abused—pain, outrage, hate, vengeance, confusion, arousal. So she short-circuits them and goes numb. For many children, any expression of feelings, even a single tear, is cause for more severe abuse. Again, the only recourse is to shut down. Feelings go underground.”
Laura Davis, Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child

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